im such a tomboy i love dirt and worms and i collect beetles...i mean thats a little weriod for a girl...right?...yep it is. so i know this guy and i am OBBESSED with him...but he wont even give me the time of day....WHAT SHOULD I DO...HELPPP!!
2006-06-12 14:03:34 · 25 answers · asked by cutie2010 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Be yourself. Some guys like tomboys. You might even find that you don't like guys.
But don't compromise your identity for the sake of someone else.
2006-06-12 14:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I am 29 and I grew up with the boy next door. And, just like you, I enjoy playing in the dirt, mud, worms, beetles, whatever. I even like to play with his race car!
You can start dressing "girly" if you want to, but, you know what? You will be "discovered" by someone who will like you just the way you are.
Trust me. There are a lot of boys out there who would rather be with a tomboy then a "girly" girl.
2006-06-12 21:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to become a girl first. Guys don't want to date their buddies, they want to date someone that they are attracted to. So quit being such a tomboy, fix your hair, put on a skirt and a tank top with some cute sandals and watch his mouth hit the floor! Good luck!
2006-06-12 21:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's perfectly normal. I mean, to be a tomboy. My sister is a tomboy. This boy has a really big crush on her, and also, HES SO CUTE! Don't worry if This guy doesnt notice you. You really shouldn't change yourself for him. Instead, do your favorite sports or activities, make a scrap book, or hang out with some friends.
2006-06-12 21:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think there's any thing wrong with being a tomboy but maybe you should wear girly clothes or something maybe like a cute skirt so he can see you has a girl and not has one of the guys. GOOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
2006-06-12 21:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start being more girly, that means spending time doing you hair, nails, etc, and lay off the dirt and worms. Wear girly clothes, and I'm sure he'll notice you!
2006-06-12 21:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by Priscilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, in this day and age, it's totally okay for girls to do bug stuff and boys to do household stuff. So, you'll grow up to be an entomologist ( someone who studies bugs ) and he'll grow up to be human being without grossing anybody out. ( I'll take that any day ! )
As for the love lorn request, same old, same old. Be yourself. Anything else will end up being thrown back into your face.
2006-06-12 21:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by yodeladyhoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes being a tomboy ain't so bad. This guy should like you for who you are. But maybe you should show a little bit of a girly side, but don't change too much.
2006-06-12 21:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥MsCullen♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what?! i was a tomboy 2 and i had plenty of boyfriends. once you get him 2 notice you, make sure you don't change anything about yourself to please him. if he's worth it, he'll luv u for who you are.
find a way to make a joke - laughing is a natural aphrodesiac! smile at him & make eye contact (hold it for just a little longer than you normally would) & then look back at him shortly after.
2006-06-12 21:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by mommyrayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that happened to me once and i just went on likeing him (and i am serious i was obbessed) and then just every thing fell apart with me so i would suggest not getting your hopes up with him cuz that is exactly what happened to me. i don't want to tell you about what happened it is too painful.
2006-06-12 21:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by beheaded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋