Why I always get tempt into having sex?

Question

Can anyone please tell me why because its getting annoying and i mean it. I do not want to end up like those dead broke teenagers that tries to have a baby and cant even afford it. GOODNESS!!! and im 13

Answer 1

Because the media is constantly informing our generation that sex is an accepted and everyday part of teenage life when it's really not. You have to understand that those tempting you to have sex were stupid enough to be tricked by the media and you must always be aware of who is likly to try to con you into something you don't want. Never forget that the media is a constant onslaught of negative lessons and that if you don't want sex, than that should be accepted by everyone around you.

Answer 2

You may have an addiction. I was extremely sexually active from the time I was 18 and on. It took me until I was 27 to get pregnant, but I had other medical issues preventing me from conceiving. It got to a point where it controlled my life. I had self esteem issues and depression issues. I thought having sex meant a guy liked me and was attracted. That only made my numbers go up.

First thing you need to do is figure out why you feel that you have to have sex. Its an easy temptation and the instant gratification is always a driving factor. The fact that sex is the mainstream and is portrayed as being ok for younger people is another reason. It wasn't until I finally hit rock bottom with my depression that I realized it was a problem. I attended counseling and therapy sessions and even took medication. As long as I was on meds I could control it. But, I soon quit taking them. It wasnt as bad at times, but sometimes it was beyond out of control. Luckily I never got anything serious. But, most overly sexually active women will at some point in time contract HPV. 1 in 4 women have the virus. It starts as what is called dysplaysia of the cervix, or precancer. If its bad enough, you will have what is called a Leep where your cervix is burned and then frozen. Human Papilloma virus is very common and speads easily. They have just come out with a vaccine they are going to start administering to girls age 9-26. So, as soon as it is available, get it.

Since you are already sexually active, you need to be having regular pap smears and getting STD and HIV checks annually if not every 6 months if you have many partners. If you are too afraid to tell your parents, talk to an older sister, aunt or someone you trust that can make it easier to discuss with your mom if you are afraid to talk to her, but its important that you start getting exams. But most importantly you need to get into counseling. 13 is way too young to be that active. I started at 16 and from 18 on, I never stopped. The sooner you come to terms with an addiction the better off you will be. They can stem from or into other forms including alcoholism, drug addiction, gambling, complusive lying, stealing and many more.

Abstinance is hard to do if you are already lost in the world of sex. But it can be done. Dont go about it my way, it took getting pregnant for me to stop. Im 3 weeks away from my due date and Im hoping I can remain abstinant for a long time. After getting pregnant from casual sex, I dont want anyone to touch me.

Answer 3

I'm only seventeen and I know how you feel you have to have self-control over yourself and everything around you I lost my virginity to my boyfriend whom I been with since I was 13 and we had sex on my 17th Birthday.During my years in high school all of the boys done the same thing to me but I didn't let them bring me down I just met the love of my life and I'm happy he told me when you're ready I am and I made him wait we never cheated on each other and we trust one another.We now live together and we are very happy so you see you too can find someone to love and care and remember one thing"IF YOU TREAT YOURSELF LIKE A WHORE EVERYONE WILL TO"so have more respect for yourself.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with you. The hormones are doing the trick. Try to be clever and concentrate on sports, etc. for divertion and get physically exhausted this way you will keep your self fit and will be safe from all the teenage problem. Do the do after 18 with carefully selected partner.

Answer 5

Temptation is normal. Just be smart about it, use condoms, dont let the "dogs" have there way with you and get an education. Read everything you can about sex and others sexual experiences. You will learn without having to feel that you made a mistake. Try to hold out on intercourse until you really like the guy and have made him prove (not say) he is your friend

Answer 6

Soln: Regualar Masturbation

Answer 7

haha i know how ya feel. im 15 & always feeling the temptation.
but pls hold off from having sex until ur finacially stable. cuz if not u might get preg & not be able 2 afford it. if ur absolutley gonna have sex, use protecion. some form of birth control.


but right now its just ur hormones sweetie. its normal. & i think u know that, :)

Answer 8

everyone gets the desire of having sex but just try not to think about it. like you said you don't want to end up like all those teenagers. do you? for your own good dont do it.

Answer 9

My dear... you are always tempted to have sex only because you always think about it. Here's a secret... if that sex urge begins, start imagining that your parents are watching you with bibles in their hands while you are naked...

Answer 10

y u always get TRICKED into having sex. maybe cuz all the boys know you that way and they know how easy it is to trick you into doing what they want. just remember there are STD'S, HIV, & pregnancy. R u ready for those consiquences