use protection?

Question

i jsut took a pregnacy test im not pregnent thank GOD but my mom has decided to ground me for life!and she isnt goin to tell ym dad!USE PROTECTION!

Answer 1

Why don't you do the RIGHT thing? Don't have sex until you are married! How are you going to explain your previous sex life to your future husband? The only thing that you had to give him that could have been his alone was your virginity. Think about that and quit having sex.(for now)

Answer 2

well in a perfect world abstinence would be the first choice but most teenagers think after the fact, when its too late and apologies dont fix pregnancies or STD's. Of course your mom is upset, she now has to come to grips thather child has "done the deed" and I am sure somewhere in there she feels that she has failed as a parent because you chose not to save that special gift for marriage. I dont know how old you are but taking pregnancy tests is not a form of birth control. If you value yourself and if the person whom you think loves you values you as well then you both should be mature enough to protect eachother. The person you sleep with today may not be the person you want to be the mother or father of your child for the next 18 years. And if you were to catch something that could make you sterile (even if they tell you that they are safe or are a virgin as well) you could ruin your chances of having children later in life with the person whom you truley fall in love with in an adult relationship and want to share that experience with but can't because of bad choices you made as a teenager. Be grateful that you have a second chance and learn from it. The rest of your life is not worth those few minutes of gratification!

Answer 3

you may think it's good that you aren't pregnent. but you really should be also thinking about with any protection not be used being pregnent is the less of your promblems,with all those sex diseaces out there now,(like aids ect.) and also which many young girls don't think about is when they have sex with a guy(especially in their teens) you are sleeping with everyone they have had sex with. and thats all it is to them sexs not making love. your mom wants the best for you and so does your dad. they don't want you giving up to a silly teen that doesn't think to him self this is the girl that i'm going to marry .the girl that teen guy will want to marry when he is finish having sex!!!!!!! he will be looking for a girl that has not been with alot of guys or many none. but its the girl that chooses the guy that they want to be with for the rest of lifes.and if you haven't been with alot of guys in your teens, you will be looking for the same thing in a guy. your teens is the only time in your life that you just get to do what ever you want to do for fun with your friends without no guy saying ah i don't think so.before long when you get where you want to go in life and ready to find love .thats when you will be making love and not just having sex for you know what you want them. all the best to you and enjoy your teens the right way . the way your parents want for you. good luck.

Answer 4

Without the penetration act, you can indulge in all other sorts. As a female, you should understand that boys interest in you will vanish soon after your submission and hence you should cleverly use it as a weapon to manipulate and keep promising them without actually keeping the promise. A very difficult game but try this and you will find your self as most successful. If you find you just cannot resist any more then use protection.

Answer 5

OK now pregnancy isn't the only thing you should be worried about here. Did you know that HIV and AIDS can be spread even while dormant? AND it can lie dormant without the carrier knowing for 7 years? How about the only way to get cervical cancer is through an STD that over 90% of the sexually active population are infected with--HPV Human Papilloma Virus . Get yourself checked....

Answer 6

Frootloop! You had me scared. dangit. Now I feel like a frootloop. I have to agree...protect yourself. But the best protection is to practice abstinence until marriage.

Answer 7

so whats the question here? if whether or not to use protection? if thats the question then if you decide to have sex of course use protection, i don't think you want to get pregnant

Answer 8

dont listen to that other dude.there is nothing wrong with sex before marrige. if u love the person & are ready, then go for it. but ur right, use protection! safe sex or no sex at all.

take care :)

Answer 9

Use condoms and dont act ignorant this is the age of information. How old are you?

Answer 10

good to hear!!!!!!! be careful friend. abstinence is best but if your going to have sex use protection and get on birth control.