i am 16 years old and i have been having sex since i was 14. me and my current boyfriend have been having unprotected sex alot and i have'nt got pregnant yet.Is there something wrong with me?
2006-06-12 13:25:50 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
honey i have been having sex since i was 15 and i am now 22 going on 23 and i have not gotten preggers but one time and i had a mc with that one 2 years ago.
im not telling you that you should be having kids because you shouldn't so yes i think you are to young and i think you need to wait till you are older and out of school and have a clue as to what you wanna do with your life.
i mean do you think that your current boyfriend will be with you for the rest of your life or is he only gonna be around for a few months or years? how serious are the two of you and do you plan on doing everything it takes to raise a child properly? do you really wanna give up your own childhood to raise a child.
your only 16 so why rush it? start using protection and then when you find the right man and decide to settle down and start a family then and only then should you start to worry about if something is wrong with you or if it could be him.
i thought for the longest time that my fiance' was the one with the problem but soon found out it was me. and we have been together for 7 years and will be married next may and are both where we want to be in life so i am ready as is he.
all i am saying is enjoy your life now and don't be in a hurry to grow up because once you do you will want to go back to when you were a kid and had nothing to worry about.
good luck
2006-06-12 13:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly think that there is something wrong, then go get it checked out. I am 16 and have also had sex since 14, and my best advice is to see your doctor.. it may seem weird at first but you will realize that it's not that bad. O, and always use protection. My boyfriend and I broke up because he had a habit of cheating. I found out that he slept with someone who was pretty slutty and because of having unprotected sex, i could have gotten an STD. So even if your guy is trustworthy.. still use protection!.. plus you really wouldn't want to get pregnant at 16, i know many girls who have and it alters your plans in life completely. Babies mean no parties, no staying out late, and reduced time with your friends. I hope you take all of my advice.-k*
2006-06-12 13:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by kellyinpink31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, why in the hell are you having unprotected sex at 16!?!? Second, get tested for STD's immediately. One of you could have given the other an STD and many, if not detected soon enough, can cause the male to become sterile and the female to become infertile. Third you may be lucky and need to thank God (after you ask for his forgiveness). I had unprotected sex for two years and then while I was on depo, I got pregnant with my son. My husband and I had just decided to wait a couple of months prior and that's why I was on it. God felt the timing wasn't right. My suggestion, stop having sex until you've exchanged vows.
2006-06-12 14:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You are TOO young.
There's no way you should be trying to conceive at this age. YOUR body isn't even finished developing, how do you expect to carry a normal pregnancy for nine months, then raise a child for eighteen years?
Or maybe you plan on getting an abortion...Ever thought about what would happen if that screwed up? You might end up with a hysterectomy and never be able to conceive.
Not to mention the fact that unprotected sex can lead to HIV, AIDS, and any number of other STDs.
2006-06-12 13:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be having sex AT ALL, and you are especially too young to be trying to have a baby! You're making decisions now that will affect the rest of your life! What's wrong with waiting just 2 or 3 more years to make such a huge decision as to have a child? There's probably nothing wrong with you. It takes up to a year for most people to get pregnant. You're lucky you haven't gotten pregnant yet. Now please start using some protection!
2006-06-12 13:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by married_so_leave_me_alone1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Upto the age of 18 years, you are in the growing cycle. Having a pregnancy at this stage will stunt your growth and you will suffer a lot of physical problem later on in life. Be a clever girl and delay by having protected sex. Use all sorts of protection. It is the only thing you have ! Get pregnant only after getting married or at least you are financially stable and able to support your self at least for two years comfortably. Good luck.
2006-06-12 14:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by tnkumar1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too bad you are having sex at your young age, but if I were you, I would use protection. You can get pregnant. With me and my husband, I didn't get pregnant for a while, thought we couldn't have kids either, then all of a sudden, I got pregnant. Three times since being married four years. Ummm, also there are only 3 days out of a woman's cycle that a woman is most fertile.
2006-06-12 13:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by ladyshep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES the fact that you are only 16, are you still leaving with your parents? And if you do get pregnant, where are you going to live? and I hope that you are not counting on your parents to be taking care of your child. What kind of value do you give yourself? If you are good enough to be a baby's momma to a boy, then you should give yourself the importance to have that boy, make you his "wife" . . . That is the problem with you young girls today, you give yourselves no respect nor value.. Maybe that is what you were taught at home and maybe your mother had you at that same age and therefore, you are simply following her footsteps, and you guys are making it a tradition.. I hate these little girls, that get pregnant and they are still leaving with their mommy and daddy.. Move the the **** out and then make your own lives and then get pregnant...
2006-06-12 13:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong. But you should use some form of birth control. An unplanned pregnancy at your age is not easy. If your boyfriend has been having unprotected sex a lot, I'd be concerned about STD's as well.
2006-06-12 13:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. What's wrong with you is that you're 16 years old and you want to have a baby.
But if you keep it up, you will have a baby or even worse..an STD that, like a baby, will be your companion for a long, long time.
For God's sake, girl. Get yourself some protection if you're going to run around like a little fool.
You can get free birth control from a lot of places. And I'd rather my tax money went to keep you from getting pregnant than to pay for that baby.
2006-06-12 13:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋