Ok so I don't wanna so weird but I really feel threatend by prettier girls!! just feel like everyone else is so much prettier than me!! and it dosent help that my boyfriend and I just broke because he wanted someone else!!
2006-06-12 13:25:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
me too, sometimes having a good heart and a friendly attitude isn't just enough for boys, they don't care if you have that, they only care about the DUMB LOOKS. they don't care if they are the meanest person in the world they are just attracted the looks. it just feels sooo wicked. and mostly the prettier girls are popular and they push the not so pretty girls aside as if they are like all that. i hate popular girls that are pretty and treat other people badly and think they are all that because we should treat other people the same thing!!!! urghhh sometimes i just wanna crush their pretty faces in frustration because they treat people so badly. i just know how you feel, at my school they boys chase the pretty popular girls although they are just horrid.
2006-06-12 13:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by hanaa 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Many girls feel this way. I know I sometimes have. Whenever I feel envious of someone, I immediately try to block that thought from my mind. I have my own attributes to offer the world other than beauty, and I am sure you do too.
If your boyfriend was attracted to someone else, it's his loss. Obviously if he can't appreciate your personality he's shallow and not worth your time. There are many men in this world who are shallow, but there are also those looking for a great personality. As long as you are yourself, you will eventually find someone who will appreciate you.
2006-06-12 22:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being way too hard on yourself. I used to always feel sorry for myself when I was your age like that too, even though I was pretty. Once I "chose" to stop feeling sorry for myself & blaming other people, those feelings went away. I also joined a gym and always smile at people now and they think that's so attractive. By having confidence in yourself and not allowing yourself to feel sorry for yourself you will be taking control of your feelings. Make yourself accountable for your own feelings and you will be in command of who you are and want to be. When you put it on the other pretty girls you are placing them in control. Whenever you feel sorry for yourself, "instantly" shut it out. Think of something else, like seeing yourself as a happy wonderful human being. Which is what you are. :) You will see this works and you will end up putting that energy to good things. It really does work, believe me; I've been there. Keep doing it over and over again. It takes practice....but practice makes perfect! We love you, honey. Take care. :)
2006-06-12 21:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh i'm really sry about that self esteem is really hard to build you might have it then loose and it all falls down i have the same problem as you except i didn't have a boy friend which makes me feel worse anways just belive in your self and look good every day.
2006-06-12 20:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look gurl, don't feel intimadated by other gurl's beauty, they're probably just stuck up snobs that no body likes, besides, every body is beautiful in their unique way. And if yor bf broke up wit u for another gurl he is just to horny to realize how pretty you really are.......-lol-
2006-06-12 20:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Aubrey A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME 2!!!!!!!!
evry time some light skinned girl with long hair comes along i just feel like dirt. then i think i know she has a boyfriend, but there are cute guys who like us less fortunite girls.
2006-06-12 21:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by BrOoKlYn BaBy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prettier girls may be intimidating but you should always remember that you have personality which is sooooo much better!!!!!!!:)
2006-06-12 21:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by Breanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont put yourself down like that we all feel like that at some point besides,your ex probably doesn't deserve you
2006-06-12 20:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by tameko_marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks
i feel sorry for you
2006-06-12 20:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be! you are beautiful! don't worry! have confidence!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean I used to think myself being a wierdo, but I got over that....
2006-06-12 20:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by LemonBuzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋