he was in a hospital in new orleans, louisiana and he was supposed to get his leg fixed because he was crippled and i was at my aunts house then that night we got a phone call from the hospital saying that he had quit breathing and the next morning we got another phone call saying that he had died late that night.whats weird is that i had a dream that someone was gonna die but ihad no idea who it was.is this just a sign that i should appreciate what i have while i have it?
2006-06-12 13:20:44 · 17 answers · asked by roxie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to find a place that offers grief counseling. A church or mortuary or doctor would be able to help you find someone. Please do it..you don't have to go thru this tragedy alone.
2006-06-12 13:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off,i just want to say how very very sorry i am about your lose of your brother,i couldn't imagine the pain! This has to be so draining for you and your family.The only thing you can do from this point is keep him close to your heart and keep his memories alive as much as you can.He will never be forgotten,but when you think of all the things you and him said or might of done this keeps him with you always.People don't want to hear this,but i must say it anyhow,he is no longer suffering nor having to be in the manner that he once was.He is definitely in a far more better place now that he can rest and be whole.You need to focus on the new brother that is running and walking and feeling free from all the stress that held him in his suffering stage.Again,i am truly sorry and i hope this has helped in somehow for you.I wish you the best!
2006-06-12 13:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for you loss. I can't imagine how hard this is for you and your family. I have not lost my brother, but I have lost others that are close to me. I found the best way to move on was to go into therapy. I found a postive way to look back on my relationships with those people instead of being depressed when I did so. Therapy really helped me to heal. I also believe that our dreams are our connection to the other world. When your brother visits you it may be in your dreams. Cherrish those visits. It's his way to tell you that he is doing well. I have read that the only way that those on the other side can come to us is when we are past open to them. This means that we have to be past the phase when every time we think of them we cry. It takes awhile for us to get to that point, but it will come. I will say a prayer for you. Stay strong. Remember the love that you and your brother shared. Because he is not with you anymore does not mean that love is gone. It lives on with you. I wish you peace.
2006-06-12 13:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by curiousgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for ur lost about a month ago i had a dream where someone in my family got shot that day around 5 i get a phone call my brother got shot it went through his back and it messed up his intestines and hit one of the nerves that messed up his leg the doctor said 15 minutes later and he wouldnt of been alive it sucks because he has a bag to make his bowel movements now and has to keep it that way for 3 months and his leg is so messed up he can hardly walk and he has to go through surgery so i kinda feel ur pain and i hope that u guys will be strong and pull through this
2006-06-12 13:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by halifax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a sister who is paralized from ms and i cant imagine being without her. you should appreciate the time and memories you had with your brother my heart goes out to you you should talk with someone a close friend or a familly member talking aboutthis may make you feel sad but it will help in the long run as time goes by it will be a little easier. you will always have him in your mind but the hurt will go away hope everything turns out well for you in the future
2006-06-12 13:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Phil B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety i cant really say i feel were your coming from but my father died when i was 4 so i really never got the chance to know him but i don't know what i would do if i lost a brother i have 3 of them and I'm the only girl i would be devastated!!!!! but yes you should appreciate what you have while its here because once its gone its gone!!! you will never have that person again and that's alot of our problem we dont appreciate them until they are gone then its to late. so im sorry to here that and you make sure you hang in there it will be brighter days
2006-06-12 13:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my brother this year too.
I think you did learn a lesson like I did about appreciating what we have while we have it.
I am so sorry for your loss. We all grieve in our own way. It will get easier with time.
I wish I could give you a hug and make it better.
2006-06-12 13:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry. Cry a lot. I did when I lost my little brother, he was 11 and I was 16. I still wonder who he'd be here on Earth had he lived longer.
2006-06-12 13:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soooo sorry to hear about the passing of your brother. Just pray and time will heal the sadness that you are currently feeling
2006-06-12 13:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry 2 hear about that...ive been through the same thing u have; with the loss of sibling and all that. if u wanna talk im here 4 u :)
2006-06-12 13:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for the loss of your brother. It is weird that you had the dream you had. Yes, you should appreciate what you have. Hang in there.
2006-06-12 13:23:34 · answer #11 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋