all i said to her was i wondered what she'd look like if she wasn't so chinese in the face. cause she was talking to my gf and complaning that it's hard to find makeup she likes. i only meant that if her face was less chinese and more normal she won't have this problem. what is wrong with women? my gf is mad too. are they perioding?
2006-06-12 12:57:51 · 59 answers · asked by Blonde Piaga 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
racist????
2006-06-12 13:00:52 · update #1
I'm with you man.
People just doesnt' understand what you really mean and take it offencive right away. Especially girls (yes, I am one). They often turn things into something it is not so it backs up their own unsureness.
I think you should try to explain what you really meant.
a friend of mine who is from Corea, once said her eyes are too chinese for eyeshadow. she meant that her eyelids isn't visible.
Good luck.
2006-06-12 13:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Shaqueline 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Actually...i'm quite offended at your grammar....but that aside....WHAT is 'normal'? You made a 'racist' remark stating this Chinese person could look more NORMAL if their facial features were less 'chinese'. My goodness, Man....HOW did you even GET a girlfriend with that kind of attitude. AND...i have also noted your attitude toward women in general. If they have an opinion...or disagree with your attitude...then you assume they are 'perioding'.
2006-06-12 13:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by mgrpupp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I'm offended by your racist comment -
It is offensive to suggest that looking Chinese (whatever you meant by that) isn't normal. Suggesting that one's racial appearance isn't normal is racist. It's not a gender thing here - your comments are racist, and I'm glad that your girlfriend is mad at you.
In general, describing a woman's face "not normal" is a pretty rude thing to do. So you're rude and racist. What is wrong with you?
2006-06-12 13:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by jawajames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was just a cruel remark! The fact that some looks "chinese" in the face ...she has no control over! I guess she could have plastic surgery, but no everyone is walking around with a million$$$ in their pocket, and can afford it....besides beauty comes from within. You deserve however they treat you.
2006-06-12 13:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by blessedmaconmiracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because what you said was offensive!
Don't insult a person's race!
You basically said if she looked more white, she'd be more attractive. That's terrible!
So, if your face is more white, then it's more normal!?? Please!
I think it's interesting that your girlfriend is angry with you too, and you think there's something wrong with women, when CLEARLY the problem is with you.
2006-06-12 13:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's extremely offensive. You pretty much called her ugly because she's chinese. I would be mad too if you said that. But evenciall they will forgive you if you say your sorry.watch what you say next time, in our sociaty a lot is based around what women look like. so just keep that in mind and you'll do fine.
2006-06-12 13:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Elli M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life. I wonder what you'd look like if you actually had a brain. Duh. I didn't realize facial characteristics were categorized by Chinese and normal. I guess that means that anyone whose face doesn't resemble your own are not normal. From reading this question, I'm surprised you actually have a girlfriend. You wouldn't last 20 seconds with me.
2006-06-20 13:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a racist jerk. Who are you to say someone isn't "normal" because they are Asian? There are a whole lot more Asians than there are Caucasians in the world. You are arrogant and ignorant. And sexist. ("Perioding" is not a word, by the way.) Hope your girlfriend dumps you.
2006-06-12 13:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by just♪wondering 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That like telling someone to be less of what they are like telling an Italian if your face wasn't so italian looking that not the nicest thing to say you need some help with us the ladies.
2006-06-12 13:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doh!
That was a cruel, crude, crass, imbicilic, idiotic, bozotonic and down right amblatoricly amgifectious statement. (excuse my language).
Never! Ever! make a comment like that to another woman as long as you live. (Your mother would have or should have said this to you).
I would have slapped you into next week.
Your next mission in life is to lower yourself to the level of a scum sucking slug and beg her forgiveness. When she refuses to forgive you consider yourself fortunate that she even listened to you ask.
Now go fester in a pool of slime until you evolve to the human race.
2006-06-12 13:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by BP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋