he almost has done it about a year ago with a friend of mine, now I am simi-worried about this other friend of mine with him..I love them both so much it bothers me to think about it..what should I do?
2006-06-12 12:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by smiles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had a problem with my ex like this. It was like a compulsion with him. I think he was so insecure that he needed attention from the opposite sex and he was also addicted to the sneaking around behind my back. I would find out how sincere he is about you by talking to him. Many men don't really grow up until they are in their 40's and 50's (of course there are exceptions) and some never do (just as women). He may be addicted to this type of behavior. I'd be careful with him.
2006-06-12 13:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by noitall147 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be signs of cheating no matter who it is,anyone and everyone can pick it up.Like when your mate starts nick picking at you over the little stupid things and starting arguments to get away for awhile or not wanting to be intimate as much as before,or sometimes guys also act like the guilt eats at them so bad,they are trying to make it up to you with gifts,etc.. to make themselves feel better.However at this time you stated that you have basically just a feeling,and you might have a gut feeling that could be leading you right,but you need the facts before getting all worked up,just follow him one evening,or even your friend to just get the details first.I hope this has helped you alittle,it's really hard to even think about your mate doing such a thing to begin with,so like i made mentioned,get the facts first.I wish you nothing but the best for you both and hope there is nothing to your feelings on this issue.Good Luck!
2006-06-12 20:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just keep them away from each other and if he ask you oh where is so and so more then once in a day he probably thinks she is totally hot but if not then maybe he is trying to make a good impresion and why are you still with him if he almost cheated on you once and you found out what makes you think he wouldn't do it again but this time for real.
2006-06-12 20:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for clues. Do some investigative work. If they are doing things out of the ordinary, then most likely they are cheating. Lying, staying out late, not answering their phone. Phone bills gives you the most details about suspected cheaters, I have figured out.
2006-06-12 20:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have feeling's about them cheating then you are probably right. with a friend even. that sucks. well like they say once a cheater always a cheater. just dump the both of them you deserve better any ways
2006-06-12 20:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you are worried about him cheating then leave him. If there is no trust the relationship will NEVER work. Second, if your best friend is like that you should rethink who your real friends are.
2006-06-12 19:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by evasive_eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust ur gut feeling. If you can't trust him, then you can't really love him. If you feel that he is cheating with ur friend then u need to let them have each other and kick both of them to the curb.
2006-06-12 20:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by fedup&gettingoverit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them have each other...really.
Why worry all your life about someone who obviously doesnt have respect for you.
There are some REAL MEN out there, there just not in bars.
2006-06-12 19:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by cheesytwist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk 2 him and try to trick him into telling; or if you are serious just flat out ask him!
2006-06-12 19:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Freddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him... has he been calling u or seeing u often? Ask 1 of ur friends to do this little trick... tell ur friend to call ur mate. next, ur friend has to act like a girl that ur mate knows already. see wat happens during the conversaton.
2006-06-12 20:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by *.*~MIZz . LoLiPoP~*.* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋