Right now, I don't have any friends, just a boyfriend of 1 and a half years. It just seems like a chore to me to call them or hang out with them. I just don't really enjoy it. It is very hard for me to find people to connect with. And then when I need someone to talk to that isn't my boyfriend, I have no one and I really want someone! I feel selfish or something.. but that is just how it goes for me.
2006-06-12 12:13:37 · 9 answers · asked by Niki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know exactly how you feel. I am in a similar situation right now.
I live in a small town, and as a 15-year-old, I am mentally old for my age. I don't know any students that fully understand me and are on my level mentally and intellectually. However, I have found family members (older ones) and teachers who I can talk to at the same level.
Try finding an adult mentor if you know what I am talking about. Just remember: don't compromise yourself to fit in.
2006-06-12 14:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jonathan H 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is break down all judgements you've had on girls in your school. Think about it, then when you feel ready go up to one or two and start a conversation.
I know that finding friends is hard. i'm 14 and am going through some friedns issues nwo too. What I've foudn out is there aren't a lot of people there to comfort us at a younge age.
But I would suggest starting conversations and being extra nice. Just try to stay honest with yourself, so you don;t have friends becomeing friends with the wrong you.
Good Luck!
2006-06-12 12:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by candymeerkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have Asperger's syndrome? Just a thought. Many Aspie's have very poor social skills. Developing friendships is over very hard for them. READ up on it...do a google search.
2006-06-12 14:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to trust some people get to know 1-2 people you need to talk to others not just your bf dont be selfish your boyfrien might not always be there
2006-06-12 12:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by babytiger1211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe Ur depressed. or u have some trauma from when u where young and it affects your social life. this causing u not to really want friends
2006-06-12 12:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sildav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos youre happy in your relationship and cant be bothered with others.
Fine but be careful cos if your relationship ends your friends will not be quick to take you back, you didnt need them when they needed you, now its their turn...
2006-06-12 12:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwwwww sry try 2 make sum frnds.. u can email me if u want ....
2006-06-12 12:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are bipolar me and my sister are the same way, we have bipolar, it runs in the family
2006-06-12 13:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by rancan44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well believe in yourself... and thing positive always.
u can mail me at alphacentury_1@yahoo.com
2006-06-13 01:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by alphacentury_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋