How do u ask ur mom about body changes? like ur period, ur legs and everything? I'm REALLY EMBARRASSED 2 ask my mom! what should i do! and PLEASE DO NOT SAY, "just tell her!" don't bother answering then. PLEAZ HELP!
2006-06-12 11:53:32 · 23 answers · asked by <3leopards 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You know, your mom was once your age. She knows what it's like to be in your shoes....every mom does. Tell her you need to ask her some questions about some things that you've noticed happening to your body. She will understand. My daughter had the very same embarassment, but she just said to me, "Mom, I have to ask you something." Believe me..I listened, and gave the best advice I could. By the way, the American Girl Book, "The Care and Keeping of You" (mentioned above) is Great!! My daughter has it, and it's a good way to read up on things you may be too embarassed to ask.
2006-06-12 12:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, You know what? You must know that your mom went through the same thing considering she was once a girl. Body changes are no longer taboo, so he truth is you should be able to ask her. But then again if these things are taboo to your mom and you think she just won't listen then maybe you should find another adult that you trust and ask her. Or go to the library and get some books. My mother was happy when I got my period. In my family when a girl got her period it was a happy day. My mother thought I was totally beautiful, so she had no problem talking to me about my body. Like my legs, my breasts, and even the shape of my body. She taught me how to take care of my body and that I am a girl, girls are supposed to be beautiful. So, I would think that if your mom loves you and she thinks you're beautiful because you are you she would want the best for you. I know that she would rather be the one to talk to you about your body than have some stranger talk to you about your body.
2006-06-12 19:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by guina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...ur school should have a mother daughter tea where they talk about stuff like that. but if u have questions that u don't want to ask ur mom u can ask a really good friend. But u should definatley tell u mom about her about ur period and talk about it...because if u don't, it's the start of a bad relationship with her.
2006-06-12 19:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by maralshabak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find if it's difficult to say something, it's easier for me to start a conversation by leaving a note or letter. It may be helpful to write her a little note, something along the lines of:
Dear Mom:
I am really embarassed to ask about it, but my body is changing like crazy and I need to talk. Can we set up a girls day please to talk about it?
Love,
Daughter
Bet that will work. It's better than standing there mumbling until you both get fed up (been there!). Good luck!
2006-06-12 19:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Fed_UP_with_work. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom went through the same things, didn't she? She probably already knows you feel uncomfortable talking about them. Why not start out by asking something like, "Mom, when did you start growing up? What happened to you and when?" That's very non-confrontational and open ended. As you feel more comfortable, get more specific.
2006-06-12 20:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually well there is a book about American Girl: The Care of Keeping You By:Valorie Lee Schafer, then you wouldn't have to approach her unless you asked her to buy the book, then she would have to ask/talk to you (reverse pschology) so yeah. But another way is to start off asking her about shaving and then work up from there, or just (I know you don't want me to say it but..) tell her.
2006-06-12 19:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll you shoud really considering telling her about your period incase you need more pads/tampons. You wouldnt wanna buy them yourselve would you? And legs well get some shaving cream and shave them just be carefull that you dont get razor burn. And never dry shave it burns.
2006-06-13 19:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that some1 u know wants 2 know but is afraid 2 ask her mom
2006-06-12 23:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by chilipeppa94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try starting small and work up to the BIG questions on body changes. make sure that there isnt anyone around so you wont be too embarassed.
2006-06-16 17:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by RandomPie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but you have to if you really want to know the facts.
Just say, "Mom can I ask you a question? " and ask away.
2006-06-12 22:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋