I don’t always have an orgasm during sex, although my boyfriend occasionally brings me to orgasm afterward.?

Question

I don’t always have an orgasm during sex, although my boyfriend occasionally brings me to orgasm afterward. Why can’t I be like other women?

Answer 1

i can only suggest, like most things: practice practice, practice.

Answer 2

But you are! No woman can have an orgasm every time she has sex. I probably fake it at least 50% of the time. I am not saying that I don't like the act during those 50% but I just don't come. But I think I am pretty good actress for none of my partners have ever suspected anything else.

Answer 3

You're perfectly normal. Nothing wrong with "taking turns" ... that way each of you is concentrating on pleasing the other. Ask your partner to bring you to climax BEFORE you two have sex though, instead of after. That makes it more likely for you to have a second orgasm during sex.

Here is some information on condoms, birth control, infection, safer sex, abstinence and other alternatives to sex, how to talk to your partner about sexual issues ... even a video on how to CORRECTLY apply a condom.
http://www.teenwire.com/
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/

Answer 4

I don't usually have an orgasm during intercourse, so my husband gives me one during foreplay. The more times I have one during foreplay, the more likely I am to have one during intercourse. I never had an orgasm until I met my husband and he was the second guy I had been with.

Answer 5

Well, actually you are in the majority. There isn't anything wrong with you it is just a normal occurance.

As long as you do get to orgasm, that's what is important.

Answer 6

Finger the g spot furiously (or use a g spot viberator), masterbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a power viberator on your clit). Maybe have an object in your a-nus. You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed. G spot is inside top wall of vagina.

Answer 7

there is nothing abnormal about this

you man needs to practice to become a better lovemaker as well

many women dont orgasim from just intercourse - the real secret is first get them to orgasim during foreplay - then during intercourse make sure you stimulate erogenous zones outside of intercourse simultaneously so that enough different points of pleasure throughout her body are activated together - the intercourse itself might not bring you to orgasim but the combination means you will orgasim during intercourse

then your man should also add some afterplay bringing you again to orgasim after intercourse

every women can and should orgasim - its the mans role as a lover to work out how best to achieve this!

Answer 8

you are normal i dont halways have an orgasm during sex and my husband is the best i've ever had. as long as your happy withyour sex life with your man there is no reason to worry cuz it sounds like it's a good sex life cuz he gets you off so dont worry.

Answer 9

all women are different, some have orgasms after orgasms, and some only have one.don't feel like your not a women cause of that.There's not one person who are the same, were all different.

Answer 10

YOU ARE!!!!! I dont know ANY WOMAN who gets off during actual intercourse everytime. Sorry hun, its the facts of life, your perfectly normal!

Answer 11

because sweetie every woman is different..be thank ful that you even get them sometimes...did you know there are some women than cant get them at all?? crazy huh