her dad knows
2006-06-12 10:34:26 · 24 answers · asked by kaitbug22 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Let her dad tell her mom. What good would it do for you to interfere? Maybe it'd be best coming from family. Moms kind of take it harder too so maybe they are waiting for the perfect time to say something. definately encourage your friend to tell her mom because if it stressful with her mom not knowing then it is best to get the stress out of the picture asap!
2006-06-12 10:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My best friend did not tell her mom for nearly 7 months and she hid her pregnancy very well until she had her friend to tell her mom that she is pregnant. Of course, the mom got mad and upset that she had to be the last person to know about her pregnancy but they ultimately worked it out and her mom supports her baby.
I assumed that she is underage, because if she is not, there is no need to tell since she can handle her pregnancy alone.
I know you want your friend to have all the help she needs. Your friend needs both parents to know what is going on, not just the father.
Moms know best but not when it comes to bad things, and you know that too.
It becomes your business if your friend keeps feeding you all the details about her pregnancy, and if it is not your business, why would she tell you all this?
Be a good friend, and do not let her risk her baby without getting its health!
I hope you make the right decision.
2006-06-12 11:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever u do don't tell her mom. Let her do it because that is a personal relationship between her and her mom and it would b best 4 her 2 tell. Besides her dad knows and if he didn't tell then u really shouldn't. Just b there by her side 4 her and try 2 incourage her 2 tell her mother.
2006-06-12 10:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by tsclark06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 15 and pregnant, and the best thing is to tell the psrents first off, if the father knows then talk to him and tell him to tell the mom but she should really be telling her parents this the sooner the better, if the father wont do anything about it, then yes, be a good friend and tell the mom, dont tell ur friend ur telling the mom, cuz if she says "no dont tell her", then its irrelevant cuz her mom must kno, maybe say im goin to tell ur mom, but if she gets mad at u, trust it will fade away fast cuz she'll realize that u were just bein a good friend and not a tattle tale, good luck.
2006-06-12 14:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be there for her. If you tell, it could ruin your friendship. She'll let her mom know in her own time. And I think her mom would rather hear it from your friend than you or her dad. Just let her know that you're there for her.
2006-06-12 11:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by musicismyobsession 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Absolutely NOT! Do NOT tell her mom! Let her tell her or her dad. If her dad knows he can choose to share that information with her himself or she can tell her. She can only hide it for so long ya know because that belly will be getting bigger and bigger and gaining weight in the abdominal area isn't a part of getting fat it is pregnancy! But please don't tell her, it is her place to disclose that information.
2006-06-12 10:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mondell&Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her father knows, maybe you should wait and see if he is going to tell her.. Also, you should try to convince your friend to tell her and not you as it should be her responsibility to tell her mother... If you really see that she is getting herself in too deep and doing crazy things, then you can get involved, otherwise, give her time to get herself together and simply be there for her and give her good advises . . . She is probably feeling very scared as she must feel like she disappointed her family... Where is the boyfriend in all this.. He should also be the one talking to her mother and facing up to what he also did...
2006-06-12 10:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if her father knows then he can tell her. Your a friend, he's the father, he has the responsability to tell her, not you don't carry this on your shoulders. You obviously worry about her but I think this should stay between the family and it is best that you don't get involved.
2006-06-12 10:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your friend wants to wait 4 the right time to tell her mom and she wouldn't appreciate it if you told her unless she asks you. Anyway if she doesn't tell her mom her mom will eventually find out.
2006-06-14 03:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by sweetiepie01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a sibling, other-wise tell her dad. If all else fails, tell the Mom, yes. she should know.
2006-06-12 14:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋