2006-06-12 10:15:51 · 20 answers · asked by andre' w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have a friend that is dating a guy that just got divorced and she about to break up with his girlfriend. I tried to tell her that if he could give them up that fast, what makes you think that he won't do it to you?
2006-06-12 10:21:57 · update #1
They've been dating for less than a month and are talking about marriage.
2006-06-12 10:22:41 · update #2
Well, I would recommend to first live together for a while before marrying or even deciding to do so - that's a good test to see if it works in practice, don't you think so?
I actually know one couple only that hasn't lived together before marrying (here in Switzerland).
2006-06-12 10:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between 1-2 years.
2006-06-12 17:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the time period is determined by the couple's goals and stage in life. A younger couple may prefer to wait longer while an older couple may choose to commit quickly.
The frequency of meaningful communication is also important as a couple can date for a long time and only have fun without meaningful and purposeful observation and discussions.
This could pose a major problem if they commit.
The time is really determined by your level of comfort and whether you identify qualities in the person that you desire in a life long partner.
All the best in your relationship.
2006-06-12 17:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends greatly on the two individuals. There are times when people know within their hearts the time is upon them. However; in most cases I believe people should wait until they know each other enough to accept the negative qualities as well as the good ones. The real purpose of dating is simply interviewing. The process were you determine rather you and the other person are willing to invest in each others lives permanently.
2006-06-12 17:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should date at least 3 months before they decide. Then after they decide, WAIT 2 YEARS!! Believe me, a lot of hidden traits come out and it's better to know ahead of time.
2006-06-12 17:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by I'm all yours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It varies from couple to couple. My hubby asked me to marry him 3 months after we started dating, but we didn't get married until we had been together for 2 years. It should happen when you both know its right.
2006-06-12 17:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say atleast 3 months. Then if you really love each other & feel marriage is the right thing then go for it.
2006-06-12 17:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by kyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating? about 4 months then going steady then engagement for about 1 yr then get married
2006-06-12 17:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by mArQuiTa ChiKa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents always told me you never know a person until you live with them and they were right i dated a girl for 4 yrs and only lived with her for 3 months before realizing she was not the one so my suggestion is live with the person first
2006-06-12 17:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least 1 year. 2 years would be ideal.
2006-06-12 17:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by mcclean5552 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋