2006-06-12 10:14:16 · 17 answers · asked by walt * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What you mean by that? She doesn't want as often as you - or not at all anymore?
To cheat is not OK - but if your wife does not want ANY sex with you, and you'd like to keep up the relation, it's probably best to talk about the issue and discuss a solution that she might accept you having sex with someone else.
2006-06-12 10:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, if you've already declared your vows to a woman to be your wife, the real answer is absolutely not. The question you ask seems like you have the mentality of someone who practices conditional love. You obviously need to know that it's NEVER okay to cheat on someone whether you're not getting anything that you sexually desire or for any other low excuses to get out of a relationship. I'm actually afraid to wonder if the woman you're with knows that you're using her for sexual purposes.
2006-06-12 15:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by musician2004@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more complex than what you asked.
Maybe there is some problem organically or within your relationship.
Is everything perfect but for sex?
Have you discussed this with her?
How long have you been together.
Typically, the source of no sex cannot be solved by cheating.
2006-06-12 10:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so your wife dosnt like to have sex.so im sure your self serving *** didnt ask her if it was some traumatic thing that happened to her and thats why she dosnt like it.if you did then now you should look at if you treat her good cause woman who are smart withold sex if there man is abusive physically and or verbally ok and then she might think your already being unfaithful so shes witholding sex to ensure that shes safe from ur unsafe sexual rendevous.ok and lastly why would you marry someone who just abhors detests and hates sex thia is ur fault and my advice to you is to leave her dont cheat thats not right
2006-06-12 10:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never okay to cheat on a spouse. If you have not or don't know how to talk to her about why she doesn't want sex, then try marriage counseling and a sex therapist.
2006-06-13 10:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by compendious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote for yes.
if it gets really bad, like once a month or something insane and you're both somewhat young.
Well, maybe not cheat. Might want to think about divorce though.
2006-06-12 10:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has she stopped? You really need to talk to her. If she is bored try new things. Like a trip all by yourselves. Try differnt positions. Try to do something nice for and try to avoid fights with her. If you can't get any good answers out of her. You may want ask her if she has stepped out.
2006-06-12 10:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by LJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if it's like a one time thing, but if you've gone more than three to six months and she hasn't given you any, I would say find someone who will.
2006-06-12 10:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No . If you want sex and she doesn't want it figure out why. There may be a reason for that
2006-06-12 10:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Making Changes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
2006-06-12 10:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋