Im 6 month pregnant and threw my whole pregnancy me and my boyfriend only had sex 2 times. When we did have sex the positions that he did were uncomfortable to me.
Did anybody go threw this during there pregnancy? If you did can you tell me how I can please my boyfriend in bed, and some positions I can tell him to do so we both can be happy??
2006-06-12 10:01:20 · 7 answers · asked by Keyshia 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Believe me I understand your situation. It takes some experimenting and communication to figure out what is best. While pregnant try both of you on your side with your back to him, The on top of him is good, but go easy for your comfort. Sometimes with him in a chair or seated with you facing him is good. The usual doggy style is good with pillows that you put under your chest, put up in air chest down on pillows. That position helps relieve pressure out of your pelvis as well. Standing while holding a counter or bed side doggy style is ok too. Sometimes I would be ontop but not face him. We both liked that too. There are sites in ivillage and other pregnancy sites that may show you, but I found limited. Experiement and see what you can do. Use pillows to prop you or him. Don't be afraid of trying new things...it will give you both the opportunity to be intimate and loving during your pregnancy.
2006-06-12 10:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by m0mmatcat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, doggy style should not an issue, also side ways, and do not act pregnant as far as your sexiness... You should give him oral sex when he is watching tv, make is something unexpected and not premeditated... Call him, and talk to him dirty, make him excited.. It is very difficult, because many times, one does not feel too sexy when pregnant, but we as women, must make the effort and make sure that we are always looking pretty, with our hair done, nails and toes and our make up.. Pregnancy is not a green light to look ugly, so pick yourself up and start being freaky.. good luck
2006-06-12 10:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*You can lay at the edge of the bed and have him stand or kneel.
*Doggy style; on all fours.
Those are the two most comfortable positions for me and I'm 7 months pregnant, :-P. Hope it helps!
But if it hurts regardless on any position you try, maybe you should try something other than Vaginal sex, like oral, or fore-play. Don't hurt yourself, remember you are pregnant.
2006-06-12 10:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you exchange plenty of foreplay and use lube. one of the best positions i found in pregnancy was spooning. lay on your side with him behind you and go from there. he should go as slow and as gentle as you need him to. and try not to be afraid because in a normal healthy pregnacy sex will not hurt the baby and you can enjoy any position that is comfortable for you.
2006-06-12 10:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by ŧťŠ4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any position which don't put pressure on your belly are good. try a pillow-book version of the kama sutra (usually sell them in bookstores) or lying on the side(spoon position), on hands & knees, use the edge of the bed as a prop w/ your rear on the edge and your partner kneeling or standing, your partner under you or sitting on a chair. these all reduce pressure on the uterus.
2006-06-12 10:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife always gave me oral sex after I gave her a back rub.
2006-06-12 10:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by deerparkmustang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT WORRY ABOUT HIM FIGURE OUT WHAT HE CAN DO FOR YOU
2006-06-12 10:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by Sandra K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋