i told my bf that i had an affare with a guy 4 three yrs b4 i could go out with him, and he said he dint have any problem and would not leave me even if anythin happnes, but today when i told him that i had sex with that guy he is throwing me away, in his past no girl loved him the way i love him this is wat he is telling me, but today he does not want me and he is going out with another girl, he got friendly to her the very day he broke up with me, i tryed a lot to get him back but he keeps insulting me. fron today i thought of just leaving him on his own. am i right in what i am doing? or should i still try to get him back he does not even want to talk to me now plz tell me what should i do?????
2006-06-12 09:59:24 · 15 answers · asked by linda v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl let him go as he did to u and move on. Call the guy u went out with already. Hell do your thing let him be you can still love him from a distance.
2006-06-12 10:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by mnmpeices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, start off with looking at yourself...Are you ready for a relationship? Can you be faithful to 1 guy? If the answer to either one of these is no, then let him go. He is obviously looking for a serious relationship.
As for continuing to love him, yes don't stop just because you messed up. If this is meant to be it will work out. Maybe you need to look more into yourself as to why you couldn't be faithful. Did something happen to you in the past? Were you hurt by some one and are now afraid to be hurt again so you are making sure you're the one doing the hurting?
There is no doubt that you really love him if you are hurt over him leaving you. You have to understand that he is no doubt feeling hurt and betrayed by you. So as for him seeing someone on the same day that he broke up with you, this is no doubt a way for him to ignore his pain. He also is secretly no doubt hoping that this will hurt you.
The best way to get him back is to give him some time to heal, apologize, tell him that you love him, and then allow him to come to you.
Think about if this happened to you how would you feel? How would you respond to someone calling you all the time? Would you be willing to listen right way?
I wish you the best of luck with this. A saying that my best friend reminded me of when my husband and i separated: "If he was truly yours then let him go and he will come back to you."
2006-06-12 10:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by sassy_girl54153 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He Sent It During The Relationship Then They Might Be Together I Think First You Should Sit Down With Him And Talk To Him And See How He Feels About Her Now Hope This Helps :D
2016-03-27 01:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to talk things out with you, move on. There are other, more worthy, fish in the sea. And don't cheat... you'll get a reputation, and no one will be able to trust you.
2006-06-12 10:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ure own fault. if u really wanted to be with him then u would have dumped that first guy. and never had any sex. stop playing with his heart. ure a loser. im surprized ure X-bf ever loved u. wat should u do? well get over it all. stop going after him. if i were him id insult u too. and hes not ure BF anymore!!!
X-bf. hes ure XXXXXXX!!!!!!!!!!!
get that all into ure head!
its wrong to be with 2 guys at once! retard.
2006-06-12 10:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Peaches~n'~Cream*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on girl ,,its time to move on, find someone who loves you for you not the past,we have no control now of the past
2006-06-12 10:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your own thang after a while he will realize where the true love comes from (you) and he'll come running his tired butt back and don't have anything but the hand waiting on him.....................
2006-06-12 10:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry on with ur life. If destiny desires you will have him back.
2006-06-12 10:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by AEZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just give him time for him to comearound.also if you don't love him anymore move on.apparently hes already moved on.
2006-06-12 10:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by slipknot_luva_24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shold go out with this boy that u what too
2006-06-12 10:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by jessica b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋