2006-06-12 09:43:50 · 32 answers · asked by mar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why not? It could be your one chance at true happieness. Even if they cannot have children... should that stand in the way of love? You can always adopt or use alternate methods IF you both would like children.
2006-06-12 09:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by kista_1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should marry a person if you know they are your soul mate, and you are in love w/ them. If they can't have children you can both always go and adopt. You can't hold the fact that someone can't have children against them....its not their fault. Now if you said they didn't want children, my answer would be totally opposite from what I gave you.
2006-06-12 09:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Whonosbest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love that person and want to marry them then you should accept the fact they can't have kids think about it if it was the other way around if you couldn't have kids and if someone wasn't sure to marry you because you can't have any kids. There are other options out there like adoption or fertility clinics. But, to answer your question if I deeply loved that person I would marry them.
2006-06-12 09:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would depend on if you are the one that can't have them or if the one you want to marry can't. I almost pushed the most perfect man in the world away because I could not have his children. I tried everything to make him understand he could have them and I couldn't and that that wasn't fair to him. He explained to me that what wasn't fair to him was for me to make that decision for him and to deny him happiness with me because of it. So, if there is real love there, there is always adoption!!!
2006-06-12 09:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if I also didn't want children - or was truly in love. If you truly love the person you should be able to move past it. If you want babies really bad, it will only cause problems down the road and you could feel unfulfilled by the person.
2006-06-12 09:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the ability to have children, you marry a person for, but, who they are.
2006-06-12 09:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because they cannot have kids does not mean that you cannot adopt. If you love someone you shouldn't let that stop you from making a great parental team.
2006-06-12 09:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you truly loved them, thats the only real reason to marry anyway, but hey u can always adopt and it sure prevents over population of the world
2006-06-12 09:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Werewolfgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am looking specifically for such a person to be a long term partner; however, I do not personally believe in marriage. Short answer: yes.
2006-06-12 10:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if they can't have kids as long as I love them I would marry them even though they can't have kids.
Love is what matters to me the most
2006-06-12 09:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋