I HAVE BEEN WITH SINCE I WAS 19 AND I AM NOW... 25...
WE MARRIED IN FEB...AND I CAME HOME FROM WORK SICK 2 WEEKS AFTER WE WERE MARRIED.. AND HE HAD SOMEONE IN MY BED...
I KICKED HER BUT.. AND HE GOT MAD AT ME A HIT ME??
SO WHO IS THE ONE TO BLAME?
2006-06-12 09:24:16 · 18 answers · asked by Andrea G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
********************I AM NOT WITH HIM ANYMORE********************
2006-06-12 09:28:23 · update #1
**********AND I AM NOT MARRIED AND HE WAS SENT TO JAIL***************
JUST A LITTLE CLARIFICATION....
2006-06-12 09:29:45 · update #2
NO all men don't cheat, but a lot do. Girl u need 2 kick his a**. He obviously doesn't deserve u and has NO respect 4 u 2 bring another woman in UR bed... And 2 get mad at u 4 hitting her. WOW! He's worthless and u need 2 jus get rid of him. U will find someone who will love u and will respect u becuz this guy definitely doesn't. He is 2 blame 4 all this becuz if he didn't want 2 be wit u he should have been man enough 2 step up and tell u that he didn't. And if u do stay wit him then that's jus showing him that he can get away wit doing stuff and its ok 4 him 2 bring other women in ur house becuz u stayed and u're putting up wit him. Kick him 2 the curb girl, I think that's ur best bet!
2006-06-12 09:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by ANC_40 3 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Well, you did the right thing by leaving that jack A$$. No woman deserves to be hit, no matter what, and your husband should have known better than to stick it in another woman. Chances are he was doing it long before you were married!
I think personally I would have done a whole lot more than just kick the *****, and I would have made damned sure your (hopefully now) ex husband couldn't even think about getting it up for a VERY long time!
Who's to blame? Absolutely your husband, more than likely the skank whore who spread her legs for him (if it was in YOUR bed there were probably pictures of you and female things around the house, so she HAD to have known), but definitely NOT YOU.
Tell that worthless dipsh!t to FOAD - you can do SO much better than that dirtbag.
2006-06-12 16:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a story this is!! You should not have kicked her and he should not have hit you! He was wrong for having her in your bed and cheating on you with her and hitting you and you are wrong for kicking her and responding the way that you did. Granted he is more to blame here then what you are but your response was just as bad and remember two wrongs dont make a right! He did choose to mess around with her and remember it takes to to tango. I feel that you both shoule either work on your marriage and anger issues and seek guidence and help with things or seperate and go your seperate ways!
2006-06-12 21:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, real men who love their women do not cheat. I have never cheated on my wife or any girl friend. When someone cheats the only person to be blamed is the cheater. They know it is wrong and they make a choice to cheat rather than deal with the problems in their relationship or end the relationship.
2006-06-12 16:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all men do not cheat. You got a loser and obviously he was cheating before you got married and you married him anyway. He would not have had her in your bed if it was the first time. Just don't marry a man you know is doing this.
2006-06-12 17:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS, there is no excuse for what he has done a man has no right to hit you beleive me i know have been in that type of relationship and it only gets worse.
GET OUT NOW, he has commited 2 of the most evil sins there are adultry and battery, you caught him this time but how many other time has he done it when you did not catch him, he is not worth you love find someone who is.
2006-06-12 16:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by blackwidow2408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all men don't cheat.
Sorry to heard what has happen to you. I commend you for being able to break off an unhealthy relationship. Now you know better and you know what you DON'T WANT. Not all man cheat, they are called GENTLEMAN and yes, they do exist, they are hard to find, but they are still some out there and up for grabs.
I know that it hurts right now, but soon you'll be happy that you got rid of that bozo, He got what he deserved.
Good luck to you
2006-06-12 16:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say he is!!... And no, not all men cheat, but most boys do... theres the difference. I have had two failed marriages because I was always gone with the Army. Yes, both ex's cheated on me. And if a man strikes you in that situation.... call the police, because he isn't a man to begin with.
2006-06-12 16:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by tcatmech2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats good that you kicked her ***. i can't believe he got mad and hit you. when i have talked **** to girls talking to my man he gets mad too i don't understand. I think there is something wrong if he's cheating on you and hitting you try to get help from your family because he's only going to continue doing this if you let him.
2006-06-12 16:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by Justine G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet they don't ALL cheat.....
Hitting anyone isn't nice.... it was HIM that's married and has a commitment to you, not her.
Blaming anyone won't change what happened.
You deserve better.
He didn't know what he had.
Serious lack of respect on his part.
Move on... be glad you don't have children with him.
2006-06-12 16:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by wildflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋