2006-06-12 09:23:52 · 28 answers · asked by alicia g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunatly there's really that you can do. If you start threatening him that's only going to make things harder on both of you, he'll still be doing it he'll just get better at hiding it so that you don't find out.
It's natural and common that men look at porn, I know alot of women who do it too. You have to look at it like this, It's only just pictures/videos. They may be the ones that get him worked up sometimes, but you're the one that he goes to in the end.
If it's bothering you, sure you can talk to him about it let him know your feelings on the matter, but you can't force him to stop.
Something else you may consider is taking some of your own pictures or trying new things in the bedroom to spark his interests more.
2006-06-12 09:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you do not suffer alone! Secondly, you're not the one to blame for this!
This is a tough and humiliating thing for a woman to go thru. Maybe talk to him & find out if it fulfils him in some way. Then suggest that you can try satisfying him the way he wants to be satisfied, instead of him turning to Porn. If he still chooses porn instead of intimate time with you, he needs to seek pro councelling. Maybe ask your doctor for pro advice... Good Luck, Angel!
2006-06-12 09:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by stormchristie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hell, I'm old as hell ..53/F and I guess i wish my ole man would look at that stuff.. (might get him more interested in the bedroom scene.. lol) He's got e.d. pretty bad and never did have a high sex drive (knew this when I married him, but I had 3 kids to support and he seemed good dad material, loved me to boot.) I guess it's not as high a priority as I thought anymore. (I'm making myself sound pretty pathetic here.) I think just about l00% of everybody looks at something, sweetheart. How about trying on some sexy outfits for him and like JUMPING on him, toss a G-string his way and he'll switch the damned computer off quick enuff! lol (Funny isn't it how the guys go for that sorta ****.. but I don't think as a rule chicks do.. maybe some of 'em.. Hell, come to think of it, I'd luv to look at some male porny myself..) sign me up.
2006-06-12 09:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an addiction. Without knowing anything about either of you, it seems he is looking for something he thinks he is missing out on by being married. The problems begin when he starts talking to these girls.
2006-06-12 09:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on child security system without telling him. Ha Ha. Also tell him it hurts ur feelings,and that if he really cared about u he'd stop. If he's like and addict ( it's real) (watches it a couple hours a day) make him join a support group
2006-06-12 09:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he don't stop then I also began to start Looking Naked Men
2006-06-12 21:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by Abhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put out more! sex for us men is visual so if he's having to sort hiself out he might just be using porn as a tool. most men do...i do and not ashamed of it. its perfectly natural however to much is never good thing! its all about finding a balance between reality and fantasy. you might not be providing him with the sex life he requires.at least hes not cheating...is he?!!!
2006-06-12 09:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ivan R Don 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy he's not out at the strip clubs or getting it on with someone else....
You could always cancel the internet service....
but I would talk to him and tell him how this makes you feel.
2006-06-12 09:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you really need us to tell you? Your'e saying that if you dress up, or even run you hands over him he won't prefer you?
On the other hand, if you're not sorting out his needs then be thankful he's only into pictures.
2006-06-12 09:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by welcome_to_how_things_will_be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him something else to look at
like you in stockings and a garter belt
laced underwear and top
with your hair down
if that doesn't make him stop try asking him about his fantasies and what you you could do to fulfill those fantasies
2006-06-12 09:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by cheffunk2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋