2006-06-12 09:16:01 · 11 answers · asked by elcangridel85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Can she or SHOULD she? I think that when you are that young, getting into something serious like living together can be devastating... you change more than you think you will in the years between 16 and 20, and it might be better to stay put for now... on the other hand, every couple is different, and you have to feel things out for yourself... just be prepared to learn things about your bf, good things AND bad things.
2006-06-12 09:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends heavily on how mature you are and how mature he is. Think about this your boyfriend will be 21 long before you and that means he will go to the bars.We men loose a little maturity in our early twenties, I don't know why but we do. Look at why you want out of Mom and Dads crib. If it's becasue you can't go out, or have your own cell phone or some stupid rule that irratates you. Stay and learn how to deal with it. Teenagers now a days want to up and quit because things when they get hard, things will get alot harder if you move out. A curfew doesn't seem that bad compared to eating when you want to at your parents house. Don't be too eager to get into the world of paying bills youre 16 enjoy it. So what if you have to deal with some rules, life will become alot tougher to deal with on your own. If your parents touching you or something like that then get out you don't deserve that. Seriously if they grounded you or something suck it up life can be a hell of a lot worse. Imagine waking up in a house with no food and you can't figure out how to pay the bills, those aren't problems a 16 year old shouldn't have to deal with and I'm not saying it will happen but it could.
2006-06-12 16:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can? yes. should? no. Honestly, that's a little young for you to be living together. Hun, you aren't even considered legal yet. what are you going to do if things don't work out between the two of you? You can be serious with the guy if you want, and it's perfectly fine to love him, but don't act like you're married when you aren't. Trust me, when you live with someone, you see a whole new person that you didn't know existed and you may not like it or even be able to live with it. Don't jump into this situation just yet, wait a while until you know for sure that you can stand on your own and you don't need help from anyone else. Good luck and God bless. Much love!
2006-06-12 16:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by BamaBelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she can , in most states legal age for a minor is 16 , so the fact of him being 20 is no concern, just stress the importance of school and of haveing a job , opposed to living at home
2006-06-12 16:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't unless u have (abusive parents). Look, everyone has parental problems, I bet that's one reason u want to move, but stay with your parents for 18 years at leat, the should be a big part of ur life.
2006-06-12 16:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by tsoddy2013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if the parents ar okay with it or you are emancipated from your parents. The female is under age
2006-06-12 16:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Making Changes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on what level your relationship is at. it also depends on how mature you are and if you know your limits. i think its ok only if you are ready maturely...and if you know the responsibilities that come along with it. also...if your NOT in a sexual relationship u need to realise your limits and so does he...dont give in just because he wants sex and you need to have a place to go incase anything happens!!
2006-06-12 16:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hope youre parents have sense enough to put a stop to it and put your boyfriend in jail for statutory rape
2006-06-12 16:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not, I did and he turned out to be the LOVE of my life and we now have a beautiful daughter together.
2006-06-12 16:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, especially if she wants to be writing him love letters while he's in jail !!!!!
2006-06-12 16:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋