This girl at school, she is such a ***** to me. And its mostly because of my wealth. She knows that my dad is a surgeon and my mom is a cardiologist. So she always goes "you little rich kids dont know what its like to be poor". When i was younger i brought two lunches to school, one for her to eat and one for me. And now shes a total ***** to me. I even have my own job to prove to society that even though my family is wealthy, i like to make my own money. But she will not shut up, and it really makes me mad, how can i get her to stop?
2006-06-12 08:53:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore her, she's getting to you and that is what she wants. If ignoring her doesn't work, then kick the *****'s ***.
2006-06-12 08:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nothing but nice to her, have compassion for her. You have nothing to prove...it isn't a fault of yours or hers or any child that their parents are rich or poor. She probably does this to you because you did take lunches to her when you were younger...she does know that you have a lot of money. It is probably embarrassing for her to know that her parents didn't provide food for her, so you always did. It is embarrassing to not have the bare essentials like everyone else. It probably bothers her that she doesn't have the money, doesn't get new clothes often, maybe doesn't even get real meals at home. You sound like you have your head on straight. Just remember she does a lot of this out of the jealousy because you don't have the same trials as her. What she doesn't realize is that you have trials of your own. Try to realize why she is doing this, hopefully by really understanding why she is doing it, even if she continues to harrass you, it won't affect you. You will be able to have compassion on her for not understanding. It is sad to see when this happens, especially when you have befriended her. Always smile and say hi to her. Never let her know that it is bothering you, instead let her see that you are moving past it!! That is not to bother her but more to help you, because the feelings of anger and bad feelings for her really only hurts you...she wants you to feel that for her.
2006-06-12 16:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by teetee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try talking her to the side and let her know that you didn't ask to be born into your family just as she didn't ask to be born into hers. It's what we do with what we were given. Let her know that you really enjoyed her friendship back in the day and would like to follow up. Let her know you aren't spoiled and because you came from a wealthy family doesn't always mean that you were sheltered or unaware of what everybody else goes through. Show compassion it's what she needs.
2006-06-12 15:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duck tape just playing if possible sit her down and have a chat with her tell her sure ur parents have money but that does not always mean u have money explain to her that u would like to be friends and that money is not the most important thing in this world Friendship has more meaning then money friendship is always there but money is not best of luck
2006-06-12 16:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor little rich girl,right?
i had the opposite problem,no matter wht u do,there will always be haters.
i was bullied in highschool cuz i was smart,
eventually i had to leave the lazy kids ,
keep my distance,
they shut up when they saw I was long gone and on the path of chasing my dreams.
2006-06-12 16:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by RACHEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at all possible try to get away from her....keep your distance from her...Now i take it she is somehow in your circle of acquaintances...But when you see her go the opposite way...she is a B____!She should get the hint if she's at all smart! If she is brazen enough to come up to you and ask WHY??? just say calmly, I don't like the way you talk to me>>>>>and walk away...If she doesn't "get it" she never will!
2006-06-12 16:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes Julius of u
u can have anythin u wont with out askin
but she hasnt got a thing...Havin no money growin up aint fun u cant have all the fansy things ppl with money have...
Just tell her u will always b her firend no matter what ALL THE MONEY IN THE WORLD COULDNT PAY not 2 b...I bet she will change her ways
Good luck and 4give her.....
2006-06-12 15:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by tats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her cause she is jealous of you. People like them you pay them no attention cause all they want to do is cause trouble, Stay out of her way.
And if she continues just tell her that you never choosed the life that you have, God did, so if she has a problem with that, tell her to go to him and talk to him about it.
2006-06-12 15:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me, I knew a lot of *****'s I'm in high school I'm assuming u r 2?
2006-06-12 15:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous and angry and it will continue. You are not the one who caused the problem, it is her family and their neglect of her that she had to have someone give her food. She is angry with them. Don't throw into her face that you helped her before. Just ignore her and walk away when she starts on you. she wants to see you react.
2006-06-16 08:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by kadel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well remind her about what you've done for her, with the lunches etc. Then ignore her. She's probably trying to show off.
2006-06-12 15:56:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋