I'm married, 3 years but been together for 10 years.
For a few months now I have not been sexually attracted to my husband. I still LOVE sex and I want it every day just that I don't want it from my husband.
A few weeks ago I met a guy at work. We are only co-workers and have not been anything more. But I am lusting for him in a strong way.
I want to be with him. Not that I want a relationship, but I just want to be with him sexually.
I know I shouldn't be with him. I don't want to mess up my marriage but I am becoming very pent up and everytime I see my co-worker I want him more and more.
I need help. How can I get over this feeling without acting on it. I know that if I could be with him without my husband finding out and without ruining my marriage I would.
Help!!
2006-06-12 08:37:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is how you do that....
communicating.. (talking....)
with your hubby...
honey you have no idea how devastating betrayal can be.
I'm sure and i agree every now and then sex isn't what it was at first but you know there is allot of way to fix that other than cheating...
we all humans and we make mistakes....
but if you know you can prevent them form biting you in the *** then do so.....
good luck..
2006-06-12 10:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mainly simply ought to spice matters up within the bed room. Have you been doing the equal factor the equal means for 15 years? I suspect so. Nevermind the faith stuff. This is among you and your husband. Sounds to me you may have dangerous taboos approximately intercourse. Communication is mainly now not that well both. How can or not it's fulfilling if you do not speak to at least one a further? Couples counselling could also be an suggestion.
2016-09-09 00:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by yan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're basically wanting permission to have an affair with the guy.Sorry,you won't get that from me. Women like you are amazing.You want to screw around but not get caught.You want your cake and eat it too.I feel sorry for your husband. Being married to someone like you is why marriage is taboo to some people. Can't have it both ways.Hopefully your husband will see you for what you are,(trash),and drop you like a bad habit.You're not worth the time or the effort.
2006-06-12 08:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by zeus2quincy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I'm lusting over a co-worker too. I want her sexually more than you know. I'd be in bed with her now if she gave me the chance. I'd do the same if I were you.
2006-06-12 08:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is what you should do to overcome this:
1- you gotta watch "unfaithful"...
2- you gotta try some different stuff with your husband which you never did before....for instance tie him to the bed or ask him to make love to you in the airplane etc....some of the things you have been thinking of doing with this coworker...
3- Go get a new haircolor or something...boost your self confidence...
2006-06-18 04:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by a a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a woman, I know you're smart enough that you can have that hot stud at work and keep the hubby. Have your friend "have you for lunch" hubby thinks you're at work and no one's the wiser. Keep some baby wiped in your purse to clean up the evidence. You will dig taking that big strange hard-on in the back seat of the car... I guarantee it!
2006-06-12 08:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be VERY VERY careful and go for it. You will not sit still until you fulfill what your desires are. Make sure this guy knows no strings attached, and make sure you husband doesn't find out.
2006-06-12 13:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would just look for the opportunity to do him and get it out of your system.
2006-06-12 08:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bang your husband and think of the other guy.
2006-06-12 08:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Christy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET YOU A TOY.
2006-06-12 08:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋