he was my b/f until he started communicating with other girls from his past again.He says it not communicating when it just them sending him b/day presents since he is out at sea.It asked him to end things with them through an email since that is his only way right now through his sis who started the whole thing since its her friends too and she knows it bugs the hell out of me by doing that.but he dodges the issues, says that he will end it when he comes home so he can show me that he can drop other girls in front of me,y is is he waiting until he sees them to do it?Is he delaying things or is he just doing this because he thinks its the best way to do it?He knows that i dont like being in the same room as them,so therefore do you think that when he comes home,he is going to use that as an excuse to never get around to ending things with them?Do you think i am right to suppect him, ex. they send him cards,he dodges telling me what was written to him,what he wrote back in detail, y?
2006-06-12 08:25:47 · 10 answers · asked by Terri T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as he does not respond back to the letters or card that got sent to him, I think you are fine. Once he starts "communicating" with this chick then you should be concerned. Sometimes guys have problem telling somebody to back-off so that is why maybe he wants to deal with this issue face to face with you in the mix preferably.
2006-06-12 08:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Watuzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are deliberating the longer term, whilst you are married, you must understand for a proven fact that he'll let you know matters you must understand, whether or not you're going to pass mad or no longer. You do not desire to discover out after a yr that he has been receiving crimson fees for the beyond yr which have been chucked away or hidden, after which determining that you are going to be bankrupt and lose your condominium. If you do feel he might lie approximately stuff like that, you then effortlessly will not have a well long term with him. And without doubt will not have a steady long term both. He could also be getting too used to telling white lies, this means that white lies emerge as not anything, so he begins to lie. And then mendacity turns into not anything, then he begins to inform giant lies. You must nip it within the bud earlier than it will get too unhealthy, for the reason that via how good he treats you, you do not desire this dating to be ruined! Just essentially inform him that he demands to let you know those matters, in any other case you consider like you don't have any long term with him. And if he tells you, that you'll be able to pay attention and no longer over react. :)
2016-09-09 00:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by yan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he really cared about you he'd be honest and upfront about everything. I hate to say this but maybe you need to move on. You deserve better. Give yourself a chance to be with someone thats going to care about what you want, respect you and be totally truthful with you. However the decision is yours in the end. Good luck with everything.
2006-06-12 08:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my past experience i have learned that kindness kills u just stay devoted to him what ever the circumstaces maybe and losing u will be the most hurtful thing that will happen to him.u sound like a really nice person
2006-06-12 08:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit long-winded, there.
Why are you torturing yourself? You already say he "was your b/f". That is past tense, and sounds like you already dumped him, at least in your head.
Do it for real, and find somebody who can appreciate you and not have to get gifts from other women to make themselves feel like a man.
2006-06-12 08:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didnt have a thing with them he wouldnt mind telling you whatever it is that you needs to know. Leave him alone and find a guy who is honesty with you.
2006-06-12 08:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so is he still your bf??? if he isnt, then you should not be worrying about what he is doing. If he is, ask yourself this question, Do you trust him? If you do, then remind him that you trust him and that he would do the right thing for the sake of your relationship.
2006-06-12 08:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm......he isn't over them. He will be REALLY hurt if you leave him so he is REALLY sensitive. Please tell him to cut of ALL communications wit those ladies and if he doesn't then you have to leave him and if he is communicating to you like he was with them then block his calls/emails/chat thingy.
2006-06-12 08:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out his password...try hard. and read them. only way to tell. people seem to not be afraid of anything on emails.
2006-06-12 08:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u r over reacting come down trust him and if he says he gone stop when come home believe him i8f u love him !!!!!!!!!!1
2006-06-12 08:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by coco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋