ignore me most of the night. She was hanging out with what used to be the popular girls. it really hurt me that after all this time she feels like she has to impress everyone and ignore me. We have been close friends for 15 years. She has become so worried about money and impressing people and it really bugs me. There is more to life than that. Anyway, should I say anything to her about how she acted towards me or should I just blow it off? any suggestions?
2006-06-12 07:44:04 · 6 answers · asked by Bride2Be 8/30/08 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would just blow it off. It is so easy to fall back into that habit of teenagers and wanting to impress. If you guys are close friends you can gently tell her what you saw her doing and how it made you feel. But as long as it hasnt effected your friendship outside of those couple hours I would probably just ignore it.
2006-06-12 07:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
blow it off you know there is more important things in life at least your on the right track. Why worry yourself over her insecurities. She'll learn sooner or later but hey at least your enjoying life.
2006-06-12 07:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by jojoB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd say avoid the 20th anniversary reunion.
2006-06-12 07:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Superdog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 yearsof friendship? of course u can say something!!!! just state how u feel, not thatshe has changed, that would put her on the defense
2006-06-12 07:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she was a true frd.. or might still be, she wouldnt really have done that unless you werent theree... obviously, you were so.. i guess you can talk to her and hang out more. if she doesnt want to then i guess "people change"
2006-06-12 07:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by blackclover223 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you value your friendship with her then i would be upfront and talk to her about the way she ignored you. its best to do this and get it off your chest then keep wondering why she did it to you.
2006-06-12 07:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋