I think my sister is falling in love with my very first boyfriend, that after 10 years I still think about everyday. I've started talking to him again after a few years of not being around him. But now my sister is calling him and asking him to do things with her. Isn't this against a girl code or something. YOU DON'T DATE THE FIRST GUY YOUR OWN SISTER EVER LOVED... Right? Or am I being a total idiot? I still really care about him, and I couldn't imagine seeing them together as anything other than friends. Give opinions please.
2006-06-12 07:33:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget about the girl code she is your SISTER. I would never in a million years go after a guy my sister dated whether it was her 1st or her 10th. If I was you I would say something to her. Seems she might not give a sh*t if it bothers you but you should make it a point to let her know.
2006-06-12 07:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. she should not try to get w/him especially now that you still talk to him, tell your sister how you feel about this and let her know you don't like it at all. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel, now if you didn't care about him at all that would be a different story but it's not so give her the heads up;)
2006-06-12 14:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never understood the "code" .. I think it's stupid. I've hung out with nothing buy guys my whole life and I've seen the whole "don't date your buddy's crush, girl .. etc .." and it's crap.
I think if people connect on a special level with each other .. who are you to tell them they're not suppose to fall in love with each other.
It pretty much comes down to respect .. wither or not your sister respects your wishes to not date him or talk to him. There shouldn't be this "code" that automatically keeps them from hanging out .. just ask her .. and tell her it hurts your feelings and she should understand.
2006-06-12 14:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i detect a little resentment from your part your sister is calling him and you might be alittle jealous that your sister is falling in love with him and doing things with him. he may have been your 1st boyfriend from your past but unless your current boyfriend you really don't have any say over who he dates wether your sister or someone else you state you really care about him and i know you care about your sister to instead of being angry with both of them you should be happy for them and show the caring that i know is truely there and in your heart
2006-06-12 14:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by precious52801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't date a guy your sister or friend ever liked period. But I'm learning that there is no such thing as a "code of honor" anymore. Kick your sisters @ss and tell the guy to chose you or her but he can't have both.
2006-06-12 14:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know shyt like this happens everyday.. and it doesn't make anysese.. nor will you ever understand it. no it may not be right, no you may not like the situation. My sister came to me one day with a "it just happened speech" she was with my boyfriend so, short of me kicking her azz and making her have a miscarrige. ... I broke all his windows out, scratched his car, I felt a lot better. My sister and I talk_____________ somewhat, but I dont' let her get close to me or my men, cause once a hoe always a hoe... family or not!
2006-06-12 14:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is a gentleman he wont date your sister.
if your sister is a sl*ut then she wont stop calling this guy until she gets what she wants.
thank god for not having a sister! I'm the only girl in my family :)
2006-06-12 14:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your sister know he is you first love?tell her and ask her what her intentions are? ask her to stay away from him because you ahve feelings for him and then ask him what he thinks of yo ur sister and what he wantsto do with her , talk to him about your future and what is going ot happen next. but dont forget why you broke up with him. think about al lthis . but you have to sit down with your sisiter and explain to her what you she is doing to you.
2006-06-12 14:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know what is going on. I will pray for all three of you. Jesus knows how best to handle this situation, and He will tell you if you really want to know.
2006-06-12 14:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by JSB2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't date anyone your sister was ever with unless you specifically give her permission to do so BEFORE hand....she should have enough respect to talk to you about it before she ever even calls him...if i were you i would talk to her about it.... remember blood is thicker than water
2006-06-12 14:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋