What do you do about a friend who has relations with a married man?

Question

She knows that I disapprove, but she still continues to have this relationship with this man who is married with children.

Answer 1

Tell her you love her, and will pray for her, and then wish her the best, but you can't stand by and watch it as it makes you feel you are supporting her. And your aren't. Sometimes tough love is the real love.

Answer 2

Kay I totally know all about this situation....you can't enable her....whatever you do......you have to simply tell her I love you but can no longer hear about this relationship, because you don't agree with her ways. Don't listen to a word of it.....stop her in her tracks every time....she will stop telling you about it, and if you are close she will realize what she is doing is not healthy or right...I'm going through that right now with a close friend.

Answer 3

I would get rid of her, what kind of a friend could someone that immoral really make? Her true colors will pop up in your relationship someday. Its like being a friend with someone who steals because they wouldn't steal from you. Thats nonsense, a thief is a low life and will steal from anyone. Don't ever doubt it.

Answer 4

You need to tell her that as long as she is continuing to be with a married man, you arent going to approve of it,and you wont hang with her anymore, until she stops seeing him. They never leave their wives anyway.

Answer 5

She knows you dissaprove? What are you her mother? She doesn't need your approval even if you were her mother, but seriously, why do you even care? I know someone who is dating a married man with kids, hell yes I dissaprove, but I'm not God, so why should I care? It's none of my buisness.

Answer 6

You can't force her to stop. Let her know your feelings about it and then move on.