For example: they think you are loving or mean-spirited but you are not or whether you are perfectionist or just a little unorganized.
2006-06-12 06:29:18 · 4 answers · asked by Pashur 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
People, even my close friends anf family, see me as tough and mean, yet they don't notice that whenever they need or want something done, I'm the first one pitching in to help them. also, they say that I have a standoffish to strangers, yet I help old ladies - really, I help old ladies, I volunteer as a child advocate, and I do other things in my community. Yet and still, my family constantly tells me how mean I am. But I'd give the shirt off my back to anyone who needed it. So. . . I ignore what they say, and live my life the way I have been. It's not the labels that make you who you are, it's your actions, so I let my actions speak for themselves.
2006-06-12 07:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by The Truth 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
People think I am hard and too straight laced . I am the first to help anyone in need and I can't stand to see older people and children mistreated . I can get along with just about anyone once I get to know them . I will give you the shirt off my back if I think you need it . When I love I love with all my heart and when I like you you are my friend for life . I am a little shy and quiet until I get to know you , that's the only reason that I can see that people may feel that I am what they say I am .
2006-06-12 20:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People think I'm standoffish and slow, because I don't smile if I'm not happy and take my time before answering.
2006-06-12 18:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Strange Design 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they think that i am a loner...what they don't understand is that i have had alot of hurts in my life -- and am fearful of pain.....
2006-06-13 03:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋