Please tell me off,or tell me this is right whatever. I bet these really are the big three though aren't they?
2006-06-12 06:25:22 · 21 answers · asked by Ragdollfloozie is Pensive! 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
And any women who want to comment may of course do so lol.
2006-06-12 06:26:03 · update #1
This isn't MY theory by the way.
2006-06-12 06:32:17 · update #2
I am not a brainwashed youth.
I am over 40 and quite able to think for myself thanks.
2006-06-12 06:33:35 · update #3
The third thing is vulnerability.
oops
2006-06-12 06:43:35 · update #4
I am sooo relieved.
I heard this theory this afternoon.
Couldn't believe it personally.
2006-06-12 15:45:45 · update #5
I can't speak for "men" but I can speak for myself.
Being a man, I am attracted to beauty. If I see beauty walking down the street or in the store I will admire it...as beauty...like looking at a sunset, a work of art, etc...beauty for beauty's sake is well, beautiful.
BUT... if I am looking at having a serious relationship with a woman, beauty isn't in my top 3 three things to look for, it's probably in the top 10, but not top 3. The top 3 things I look for...
1) Intelligence.
2) A sense of wonderment with life.
3) Common sense.
Being that I'm almost 40, been married twice and in my younger years "dated" frequently, I have realized that outward beauty, while nice, pales in comparison to the beauty that comes from a quick wit, a passion for life and the common sense to make decisions about things.
2006-06-12 07:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by gotalife 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you mean a youthful spirit that can be had at any age then that is a desireable quality. Mere age is irrelevant.
Beauty without inner beauty is hollow and in the end not satisfying.
We're all vulnerable to some extent, including us men, but its certainly unattractive if it is played up. Most men are smart enough to see through that act anyway. Pure vulnerability is only sexy if you are a pedophile.
2006-06-12 14:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say we're ONLY attracted to those three things....but, all three are good quailities....
Youth and beauty are givens, women are attracted to the same in men.
The vulnerability is attractive, but not because of the reason you think. Men are, by nature, fathering figures. So, when women show a vulnerability, it gives us the opportunity to "be men", so to speak. Not saying you have to DEPEND on us, just be a little vulnerable. It caters to our natural ego.
Other qualities we look for are a chipper disposition, honesty, a sense of humor and good self esteem.
2006-06-12 06:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by RCF1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not true. I have seen some older ladies that I thought were really atractive.(youth)--I have seen some women that just to look at thier face they were not all that beutiful but they packaged themselves well and that made them look beutiful.(beauty)--vulnerability is definatly a positive factor to a lot of men, but I think thats all in our gene pool the men are the hunters and fighters kinda thing. The vulnerability exceptance in my book is not the winy everyhtings is wrong but the I need someone to handle the heavy stuff. Lets face it it is still a mans world, not taking anything away from women. There have been women that have done everything a man has done but in every day life a lot of things are better handled by a man. (vulnerbility)--I myself like a intelligent woman. A woman that packages herself well. And one that wants somebody to handle the heavy problems and oh yeah one that can care for you in a loving manner. But I could'nt pick any of these dream girls now because I already have one and all you guys can agree one good woman is enough for any man. Hope this answers somethings. Mainly me just running off at the mouth or keyboard
2006-06-12 06:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by fmjclip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no those aren't the big three. Most men are attracted to the BIG TWO, if you know what I mean. I am more an eyes and thighs man, but a nice set of headlights will make any broad look good. She also needs to be smart. No matter how good looking, if you can't hold a conversation, break like the wind and head for the door!!
2006-06-12 06:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is typical of the brainwashed youth of today who think EVERYTHING they hear and see on MTV is fact. Maybe the little boys you associate with are attracted to those three insignificant things, but real men, those mature enough and assured in themselves enough don't bother with trivial matters like you suggest.
2006-06-12 06:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by boker_magnum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah what you speak of is just a dance act at Scores or any mens social club with entertainment that costs by the minute
These are not the traits looked for in an actual relationship.
2006-06-12 10:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jujeaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can only speak for myself, but the perfect woman for me right now would be about 85 years old, half or three quarters dead, and with a sizable bank account and no other heirs. If she was
beautiful so much the better.
2006-06-12 11:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sanitizer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For attraction maybe but they aren't as important in a long term relationship (the only true type of relationship).
2006-06-12 06:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by Human 2.1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, and no. I married a woman who will make a good Christian mother to my children, and a great partner to share my success with, listen to her success, and also to comfort one another in our failures. That is what is attractive.
Beauty, breasts, and butt helps, but what wins the day above is virtue and values.
2006-06-12 06:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by lundstroms2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋