and if you had a choice NOW, would you have married that person? Have you fallen for anyone else other than your spouse - I mean "fallen for" -- not a one night stand or anything. Is your relationship what you expected it to turn out like and are you happy about it?
2006-06-12 05:58:15 · 14 answers · asked by butterfliesRfree 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I had to do it over again I would NOT marry my husband again. We are miserable but have 3 children to consider so we tolerate each other.
2006-06-12 06:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I I had it to do all over again, I wouldn't do it. When we were dating, things were fine. Now that we have been married for 9 years things are so different. He changed into someone I didn't know. He now ignores me, snaps at me when he does speak to me, and doesn't have anything to do with our son.
I have learned alot about him in 9 years and I definately would not marry him again. I want someone who wants to be seen with me and go and do things together, he wants to stay at home all the time.
I have fallen for someone else because he treats me like I think I need to be treated and not like a doormat. I am getting a divorce so I can be happy and have a better life for my son and I.
So look hard about what you have and don't have and make sure you are true to your heart..
2006-06-12 16:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I and my wife have been Thur allot in the past12 years. I thought I wanted out but it came down to actually wanting more of her. I would never want another person and I am so in love with my wife at the present time that things have changed for the better. In no way did I think things would turn out this way but for the past 12 years of heart ache and pain, I am some what glad it was like that because now it is better than I could ever imagine.
2006-06-12 13:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i sure would marry him all over again! I have not fallen for anyone else and dont ever plan or want to either. I am totally devoted and happy with him! I would never dream of cheating on him! When you have a great marriage and are truley satisfied you would never look elswhere for it! I love him now more then ever and our loves continues to grow and get better with time!
2006-06-12 13:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We just celebrated our 11th anniversary Saturday and we are happier now than we were on the day we married! I wouldn't change a thing if I could do it over I would keep everything the same! Sure we had some struggles but that is what makes it so much more worth while now!
Good question
2006-06-12 13:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married to my wife for 6 years and with her for 10, if I had to do it all over again I would still marry her but I would have waited a few more years before becoming so serious. We married when I was 20.
2006-06-12 13:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by honest guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married 10 years. If I had it to do all over again, I'd marry my wonderful husband again. A million times over. My relationship is tons better than I expected and I am happy.
We have grown, that's for sure. There are some trials and tribulations that I wish we could have skipped...but who knows...it might have been the thing that made us as strong as we are today.
2006-06-12 13:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only choice I would make differently would have been to marry him sooner. The only thing I'm not happy about is my husband being disabled by a nerve disease that no one knows how to treat. He lives every day in pain and every day loses more and more of his motor skills.
2006-06-12 13:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by icddppl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it!!! youare married and want to see if you are not alone, i have been married for ten years and love him with all my heart thats why i got married.before you get married yo uahve to make sure he is the one. iif you had any doubt then yo ushould nt have even concidered marriage. if yo uhave fallen for someone make sure you divorce first, why make yourself look bad, to yourself or your kids.make your slef happy but dont hurt others when you are doing it, let your hubby have the chanceto make his decsion of wanting this realtionship over. dont forget to make sure you are leaving your hubby for the right guy or you will end up alone when it is all done and over with.good luck.
2006-06-12 13:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for 40yrs long time and yes i have fallen for another but for me i dont love my huby any more so i have a friend i go with and be with for a yr now its working out great
2006-06-12 13:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by sharkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋