people change their boyfriends or girlfriends like clothes. do they really love or just act like lovers? i dont know but it really makes me confused. what is the true defintion of love? dying for love is insanity or prove of true love?
2006-06-12 05:50:17 · 5 answers · asked by ent_girl 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Well, people can't make up there mind.
Example: Your on a boat, crabbing with your family do you swim or crab?
Answer: you probably cant make up your mind you swim, then want to crab, swim,crab,swim,crab
This is the same with couples people want to experince different people. Thats why we fall in love, and then dislike the person.
Teenagers do this often. Horomones and peerpresser have to do with his one day they will like someone, then another person, then another, and another,
Mostly girls do this
(please gimme 10 points!) Kidding!U can if u want!
2006-06-12 06:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by catlover092 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As my high school English teacher once told our class, "Love isn't in the heart. It's in the mind - and glands."
True love is hard to define, but you know it when you feel it. It's placing the other person's well being above your own without becoming a doormat. It's a heady, magical thing that should also be rooted in strong friendship.
I think it's safe to say that the people who change partners like clothes aren't really in love. They're in love with being in love, maybe. You can definitely be attracted to someone and get caught up in a heady, magical thing and later discover you never really cared about that person at all. Passion should be a component of a loving romantic relationship but it probably shouldn't be the dominant force - at least all of the time. If all there is is passion, then it's probably not true love.
So, getting to the dying for love question. If it's a passionate "Romeo and Juliet" style double suicide kind of thing, I question whether it's true love. I always figured Romeo and Juliet didn't have much to go on. They barely knew each other.
But the selfless, altruistic act of putting your life on the line so your family can be safe. Yeah, that's love. "Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends."
2006-06-12 13:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by poohba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that people first need to understand the true meaning of love. Love is not just something that you say to someone b/c it is the first thing to come to mind. But , it is something that takes time. Now a thing called luv is so much different b/c, through this isn't true heart felt emotion , but a deep attraction, or strong crush. PEOPLE ONLY FALL IN LOVE once in there life, if that, u may think it's love with the other 500 ppl, but what that really is , is luv.U know it is love when u are willing to lay Ur life on the line and fight 4 it , and take it 4 joy as well as pain.
2006-06-12 13:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by *FLIRTACIOUS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say people, shouldn't you say some people ? My neighbor and his wife had their sixty-fifth anniversary last week. Two others of my neighbors lost their husbands after being married for over sixty years each.
I won't say how long my wife and I were married because it would give you some idea of our ages, but it's quite a while, and neither of us was married before.
Not everybody jumps into and out of marriages like it's going to a movie, or a party.
As for having one heart - - - the heart is simply a pump. It has absolutely nothing to do with love or marriage.
2006-06-12 13:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it has nothing related to having ONE HEART or Two HEARTS!
It's about (Feelings)...
Feelings and Emotions that Humans go through.
They can change over and over.
That's how people fall in love Zillion times in their lives, while other type of people just love one person for the rest of their lives.
2006-06-12 14:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋