Can you be in a relationship with someone who you think is the most gorgeous person you've ever seen therefore are intimidated by them which makes it hard to be intimate. What can you do to over come this??
2006-06-12 05:43:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You're in a position I was in when my boyfriend and I first got together. He knew that I was intimidated by him because he is really, the most gorgeous guy, in my opinion, that I have ever seen. You just have to think. He chose you. That's why you two are together. And if you've been together for a while, he obviously thinks the same of you too. I personally dont find myself THAT attractive. There are many other girls out there prettier than me. But my boyfriend says that I'm the most beautiful thing he has ever laid eyes on. it's all about personal opinion. If he says you're beautiful. Than take as that. Dont think low of yourself and believe that he could do better or anything like that. You should be grateful to have a guy that you think is the most gorgeous person you've ever seen. Some people are stuck with second best. Get what I mean? Hope this helped at least a little. And i hope things get better for you. <3 Ashley
2006-06-12 05:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
No one can help you not be insecure. You have to decide not to be. But something to keep in mind is that person is choosing to be with you so they must find you very attractive. And if your boyfriend or girlfriend is really that gorgeous people will hit on her/him no matter if you are obviously with him/her. But if you trust him/her then you have got to let it go.
2006-06-12 12:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by c'est_moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it is more likely for two people who are about the same (looks-wise) to end up together. I have this gorgeous friend and she seems to date unattractive guys then the guys can't handle how pretty she is. They get too insecure.
2006-06-12 12:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by jaemers24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in a relationship with an attractive bird I would want to make sweet love to her all the time. You asking that question for real?
2006-06-12 12:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmm, I suppose anything is possible. But I would say that you (maybe not you personally, but you since you are the one who wrote the question) lack some self-esteem and self-worth. If you are in a relationship with someone, then looks shouldn't factor into your intimacy.
2006-06-12 12:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In that case:
It's not the attractive nature of the person B. It's the insecurity of the person A that s/he is not worthy of involvement with person B. Thus, it is a problem of person A's self-esteem, not person B's attractiveness level.
2006-06-12 12:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by T.J. N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends from the point of view..you also can be too attractive,even without knowing
2006-06-12 12:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by sunflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity can take place regardless of the attractivness of your partner. I say NO. Kind of like having too much fun? Not possible.
2006-06-12 12:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by not4u2c_yet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too attractive to others, yes. Not to you.
2006-06-12 12:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is such a thing,im considered to be one of them,he-he.....
2006-06-12 12:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by tereval198912 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋