Ok the situation is, a friends of mine was going out with this guy but they broke up and i av not seen either of them for about two years and two days ago he came to my house AFTER HE CALLED ME AT 12 PM telling me he loved me from te time he saw me which was two years ago but i dnt av a slighest attraction to this guy but i just can't tell him to go away. HELP
2006-06-12 05:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by bintaj01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't be mean, just explain that you don't have any feelings for him and there are new things in your life. If he's a man at all, he'll understand and leave you alone.
2006-06-12 05:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kasie Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he should have thought about all that 2 years ago. Its too late now, the fire has burned out and you need to tell him to get lost since you cant tell him to go away.
2006-06-12 05:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you respect his feelings, but you do not feel the same way. If you want to keep him as a friend, suggest that. If not, then tell him you just don't have room in your life for him. If he "loves" you, then he will respect you and back off.
2006-06-12 05:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by goddess17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely do not involve yourself in this situation. It has trouble written all over it! I have doubts that he has been in love with you for years if he hasn't contacted you in all that time. Screen your calls and don't answer it if it is him. If someone comes to your door at midnight you shouldn't answer it anyway. Be safe!
2006-06-12 05:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by teena9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it softly, men are more fragile than they appear. Just tell him it is a bit out of the blue and you don't have feelings for him.
2006-06-12 05:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by HappyHello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gonna have to sit him down and explain why u dont feel the same way. dont just tell him to go away cause everyone deserves to know why their feelings arent reciprocated.
2006-06-12 05:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by hotfox462 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you are not interested. And if he keeps bothering you about going out w/ him you will no longer be his friend
2006-06-12 05:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by april s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have any friends that are:
cops
pro boxers
psychotic drunks
?
They tend to scare people away.
2006-06-12 05:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by T.J. N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him. Give a guy a break
2006-06-12 05:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him on the phone and tell him that you love someone else.He will go.....
2006-06-12 05:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋