my boyfriend X called me and told me that they are still together, but i ask his sister about it and she said its not true so i don't know what to think.
2006-06-12 05:35:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depending how old you are and how long you've been together,trust is the one thing that is needed. Pray about it. Go with your first feeling is. It is much better to pray about that than to worry yourself and get your anxieties in a mess. Pray and find your answer with Holy Spirit. God will lead you to the right answer. He knows who is right for you. God Bless you.
2006-06-12 05:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Get a grip. My heart goes out to you. This isn't easy.
She still wants him, and is going to great lengths to get him back; so she's not likely to quit soon.
Tell him what she did. Ask him if he wants a two week break from you to make up his mind. If he accepts you offer
...then dump the ******.
If he declines the offer, then you know it's YOU he wants...
but the problems are not over yet. She will still be after him.
This makes things hard on you...tell him that.
Tell him to make it CLEAR to her that THEY are OVER!
He might have left her with HOPE
...so tell him to end that hope once and for all with a hand written letter, and make sure YOU are there when he mails it to her.
If he does not take steps to end this tri-angle, then it is possible that he's enjoying it a bit too much. That hurts, I know.
Time, THEN, for YOU to call a 2 week break and give him time to make up his mind and do as you asked.
IF his love is true, he'll get the message loud and clear, and do it.
Men can be a bit egotistical when two women want them...it is up to you to put him to the test to solve this...don't hate him either way. Best you find out the truth now.
I wish you love
STW
2006-06-12 12:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the ex-girlfriend is trying to rock your boat, females do not have respect for other females, we all know this game, and yes most of us have also played this game, at least when we were younger anyway.
What you need to do is talk to your boyfriend, let him know that he need to check his ex-girlfriend because she owes you nothing, but he does.
Let him know that his ex-girl is in your personal space, and if he really is through with her he will fix this problem.
In the end don't believe what the females says, but pay attention to the boyfriends actions.
And most of all listen to your sixth sense, because it never leads you wrong.
2006-06-12 12:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boyfriend. If you trust that he will tell you the truth. She might just be trying to break you up. Go right to the source!! Good luck.
2006-06-12 12:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the xgf is trying to cause trouble. Ask your bf and if you get the idea that he is lying then plan your course of action. Good Luck to You!!
2006-06-12 12:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask you boyfriend about it and tell him you are getting calls from his x about you. is it true or is she trying to break us up. it upseting you so ask
2006-06-12 12:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what does he want and why does he tell you that.talk together and find out what is the real problem.
2006-06-12 12:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before or after you curse her out??
find out for yourself before you believe anything. she might just be lying to get you to break up with your boyfriend so she can have him back. It happens...
2006-06-12 12:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is feeding you a line of crap to upset your relationship, talk to your b/f about it.....
2006-06-12 12:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sc**w them.
2006-06-12 12:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋