i really love this guy but he is 13 years older plus he does not care .do you think it is ok ? and if you love someone it does not matter ?
thank you !
2006-06-12 04:33:48 · 27 answers · asked by Zaski 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's nobody elses business if you love someone age is only a number as long as you are both adults in the first place. My fiance is 19 years older than me and we've been together 11 years - age has never been an issue for us but it has been for others such as family and friends but that was when we first started going out now they think its nothing. It's what you both think that counts nobody else - good luck and be happy remember you only get one life!
2006-06-12 04:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by missieclass 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not gross (depending on how old you are). You have to be realistic, though. It's really great to feel that selfless feeling for someone, so enjoy it and enjoy his company if you can, but try to accept things the way they are. He probably sees you as too young for him and that's his privilege.
My father was 13 years older than my mother and they married when she was 21.
(By the way, loving someone at any age was NEVER illegal!)
2006-06-12 11:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it is sick to love someone who is 13 years older than you are. I have been there and even with guys who are slightly older than that.
As for him not caring, that is not cool. Don't waste your time on a guy who doesn't return your feelings. It will only depress you.
2006-06-12 11:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by T2Step 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you???? if you love someone i think age don't matter... well if your a 10 year old girl and the guy is like 35 yeah i would was sick-o but my hubby is 5 yrs older than me... whos to say u wont end up marring hin in years to come
2006-06-12 11:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mickey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I briefly dated someone who was 13 years older than me. I was very exciting, and I always look back on it with a smile, but it was short-lived. We were in different places in life.
2006-06-12 11:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by ontario ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that at all :) Older men and younger women have been in love since the beginning of time.
2006-06-12 11:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Goodbye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 years older!? DAMN! that's pretty old! I don't think it's gross, but if you're under the age of 18, then it's illeagal. If not, then it's you're life and you can do what you want.
2006-06-12 11:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok. If you're both at same wave length , then age doesn't matter.
Buffy loved angel who was 198 years older than her.
2006-06-12 11:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by Shaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No is should matter if you are in love and he makes you happy then be happy. I just met a man and he is twelve yrs older and I really find him attractive and I feel that it will work and he's cool and funny, and energized.
2006-06-12 11:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how old you... but if you are over 18... then i dnot see what the big deal is. If you are mature enought o know your feelings and mature enought o handle a "adult" relationship, I say go for it. its kinda funny that in the "real world" people worry about ages and all that... BUT when it comes to hollywood.. half the celevraties are married or dating someone years beyound or years younger than them... and thats acceptable!?!
2006-06-12 11:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by moomoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋