This girl & I have been friends since high school but it's always been that her "outgoing" rambunctious personality has helped her make her way through the social crowd and my looks, grades, and athletic abilities have made mine (to be truthful). The problem is: I think she wishes my boyfriend (who I met thru her) was her own. Now, they are neighborhood friends so they do friend stuff, but I find him inviting me along and not her. When things go "wrong" she takes his side, and if he calls her to look 4 me she won't tell me. What is going on?
2006-06-12 04:09:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe it's not just about him? maybe she misses you? maybe she's possessive of you? confront her
2006-06-12 04:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the old saying applies to this tht its always your best friend tht will cheat on you! Ive heard two guys say how they had sex with the best friiend when they broke up and my husband did the same in his first marriage when they divorced its good revenge and the gal wants what u had .You are in a triangle ! I would stop this now .Get rid of both.Your girlfriend is not showing she cares for you and the guy isnt either .Sorry it will hurt you if you stay.
2006-06-12 11:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to adjust the term you use for your friend. "Best friends" don't do those kind of things. And a true boyfriend doesn't usually fall for the attention of another if he is really interested in you. There is blame on both sides.
2006-06-12 11:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this girl will do anything to break you guys up. You better be watchful of your boyfriend as well. No offence to the male population, but they can easily give into a girl who is willing to do sexual things with them, especially if the girl is pretty looking.
2006-06-12 11:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes him eventhough u met him thru her, i think she didnt realise that she loved him until now that u and the guy are going out, she's jealous i think she's not a good friend, talk with her, tell her to keep off ur boyfriend and that she should keep to the friends relationship she has with him, she's not worth a friend anyways.
2006-06-12 12:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep an eye on your friend. and would stay as much apart frome her when you and your boyfriend are together. She might try and take him away from you. this coming from a man. If someone starts giving us hints that they want us. we will go for it.Specially if they are good looking.
2006-06-12 11:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you boyfriend. you should have a talk with her and ask her about her behavior, she is probably jealous of you!!!! becareful with that. her hidden agenda will soon be revealed.
I do with people like that I GET RID of them or keep my distance, see them once in a while.
2006-06-12 11:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time for you to find a new best friend.
2006-06-12 11:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's jealous of you. she likes your botfriend too. well, if she were really your true friend, she should never do that to you. well, the best thing you should probably do is stay away from her for a while...
2006-06-12 11:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by stitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your "best" friend if she is trying to get your man...kick her A** and find another "best" friend...good luck girl you are going to need it!!!
2006-06-12 11:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by countrygirlcansurvive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep an eye on her friends and bf's can be sneaky
2006-06-12 11:13:52 · answer #11 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋