I have never been in realtionship before and i have never been asked out by anyone either but i see my friends being asked out all the time and some of them are in a good relation. I am starting to feel empty now....feel like that something is missing....why do i need a boy to feel good??? what is wrong? what should i do about this?
2006-06-12 03:37:43 · 19 answers · asked by curioustom 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You need to realise that there is more to life than having a boyfriend. I think you feel lonely and empty mainly because most of your friends have boyfriends. You should try going out with friends who are single or meet new friends, by doing that you might also meet some new guys. If you don't meet new guys then its fine and you shouldn't let it bother you. You'll soon see that you and another guy will be attracted to each other but don't try hard to find a boyfriend. Have fun being single and know that there is more to life than having a boyfriend.
2006-06-12 03:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 21⤊ 2⤋
You don't need a boyfriend trust me. I used to think so too, but then I realized that I only wanted someone because all my other friends had someone. But then I realized that the right one just hasn't come yet for me. And let me tell you I'm 21, and I didn't get my first boyfriend or date even until I was 18. Some people it takes longer to get what you want, but if you just enjoy life, and be happy with yourself, then you'll find someone. It's a big world out there, and your soul mate could be right in front of you, or across the world. But you'll meet him sooner or later. Good luck, hope this helps.
2006-06-12 03:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Many people feel that way at least once in their life. Well first of all, you don't need a boy to complete. Society wants you to feel that way. Everyone is like you need a boyfriend or a relationship to feel good about yourself. Well that is not true. You have a empty place in your heart right now. Only God can fill that empty space.
2006-06-12 08:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
its in human nature to look for a mate its written into your dna all people are the same with out my girl friend ide feel empty so your not the only one but been lonly is not a nice thing to have to go though and i understand what your going though so if you want you can talk to me ide keep you company (note dont get the wrong idear i love my gf and would nvr cheat on her) if you wanna chat about any thing just email me at mrbisket@hotmail.com
2006-06-12 03:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by mrbisket 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Women and men are simply made for each other - by nature, which is why there are different sexes in the first place. However, according to Nietzsche;
"The sexes deceive themselves about one another: the reason being that fundamentally they love and honor only themselves (or their own ideal, to express it more pleasantly—). Thus man wants woman to be peaceful—but woman is *essentially* unpeaceful, like the cat, however well she may have trained herself to present an appearance of peace."
[Beyond Good and Evil, aphorism 131.]
Reverse the second sentence, and you get the following: "Thus woman wants man to be warlike - but man is *essentially* unwarlike"... I don't know a good metaphor for that, but Blake says: "Let man wear the fell of the lion, woman the fleece of the sheep" [The Marriage of Heaven and Hell, Proverbs of Hell] - and a lion is a big cat. At bottom, a man is just a little lamb, however ferocious he may present himself.
2006-06-12 04:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by sauwelios@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
having someone else in your life is like a sounding board.it confirms that you are you.feeling empty is the natural state of humans,but you can fill the void by devoting yourself to something like religion,politics,a cause you believe in.many people fill this with drugs,sex or becoming a political or religious zealot.
2006-06-12 03:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by mars 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a guy. You need to start being more social. Join or start a club. You'll feel less empty.
2006-06-12 03:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you are not true to yourself .when you become your own best and honest friend you won't feel empty.Love yourself ,try to learn ,travel know people .One day you will find the one who suits the best.Treat yourself like a precious jewel ,only the best wins you.
2006-06-12 03:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by stilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with looking for love. just don't get desperate and accept whatever's offering just for the sake of having it. love comes to everyone in due time. i know that's not what you feel like hearing right now but i can personally vouch that it's the truth.
try and discover things you like to do alone and with your friends, try and live your life to the max and not just sit and wait for others to give it to you. the love will come.
2006-06-12 03:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by ilya 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Jesus is what is missing in your life.
God creates each person with a void in their hearts. At times you can barely notice it, but sometimes it feels like a big empty space in your soul that makes you feel depressed. When you admit to God that you are a sinner, believe that Jesus is God's son, and confess your faith in Jesus, the Holy Spirit comes into your heart and fills the void that you're feeling now!
I suggest you go to a church and talk about how you feel with a pastor; he will understand completely.
God bless you!
2006-06-12 03:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 6⤋