why is it racism against "WORKING WOMEN".is it bad 2 want a better lifestyle...and why do men prefer submisive

Question

what is the point...is it better to be submissive than liberal?? give ur opinion..BUT SERIOUSLY PLEASE

Answer 1

There are some men who do prefer submissive women. But they're immature and very insecure. I don't trust those men to not be jealous and controlling. There are also plenty of men who truly appreciate women as people. They will listen to you as though you have something important to say and value you as an individual. It just depends on the man. They're all individuals and all different.
I think it's better to be independant. Women who are submissive do a disservice to themselves and men by not taking responsibility for their own lives. They are allowed to sit back and relax and know that whatever goes wrong in their lives, they're going to blame their husband because he is the man, and he's supposed to make all the decisions. It has always struck me as a selfish attitude. And shameful, because it throws out personal resposibility for how their lives turned out.
And skifaster is making a broad generalization because some people find it easier to make people into groups so that their free to not think about them as people with rationality. That way they don' t have to respect others. Shame on you skifaster.

Answer 2

Men don't pefer submissive, at least none that I have ever met. Most men prefer their girl/woman to work to have a better lifestyle for the family as a whole. Not sure where there is racism, do you live in the Middle East? That is their belief there created by their foolish religion of islam. USA is not racist though against working women unless your married to a muslim.

Answer 3

There's a lot of racism and discrimintaion against working women. It's bad enough men do it but when you feel women discriminating or making you feel like less of a mother because you work, and enjoy it. I don't think it's bad to want a better lifestyle for yourself and your family and it's not a crime!

Men prefer submissive because they enjoy being in charge and catered to...who doesn't. Some women also prefer it because all they want to do is stay home. It's not a bad thing but when you take the divorce rate into consideration and the fact that most fights are centered around finances it makes you think doesn't it? A woman shouldn't be tied to her husband because she doesn't know how to work or worse...doesn't want to! I'd rather be liberal. I feel satisfied at work and at home and I can treat myself when I want to. I don't have to wait for my husband to come home to get what I need.

It's better if you come up with a good balance for yourself and a good schedule. I don't feel like I'm sacrificing my family for my job at all because my husband helps me. I'm not submissive at all, we both work, we both do chores, we both care for the kids (with help from a sitter), we both take care of each other.

Life is all about balance.

Answer 4

It is much better to be liberal. I am 24 and I am completely self supporting and live alone. I have a good job, own my own home and car, and I have enough money left over every month to do something nice for myself. In today's world, women can't depend on men for everything as they did in my grandparents and somewhat of my parents day. You have to learn to support yourself and a mature man will appreciate that from a woman, he shouldn't be threatened by it. I guess some men are just either old fashioned or insecure.

Answer 5

as a muslim, women in islam are said it is not compulsary for them to work.
as men will have provide for them but their is a option that they can .
but i think its silly when some women try to work just to be "equal to men" thats so stupid.
because men cant be equal to women nor can women be equal to men.
however in islam what ever she earns her money that is hers and hers only she does not need to contribute to the house hold income and spend however she wants husbands aint allow to take that money and still after that men in islam need to provide for women as they have alot of things that go on motherhood,housekeeping.
i remember onece i was told that the prophet was praying and he heard the children cry and when he heard this he quickly shortened his prayer just so the women dont feel streessed.
but there are so many things in islam that are beautiful.

Answer 6

yes...men are still threatened by assertive women....there is a manipulative way around it however....you can play their little game & make them think you are submissive till you wrap them 'round your little finger then, WHAM! ....like a thief in the night, spring a killer proposal, et. al. on them that they can't even come close to competing with.

Answer 7

i think women should work, unless they have small children. if their kids are to young to go to school then i think one of the parents should be in their lives at ALL times, even if its the dad.