I'm 28 this year for working almost I have 8 years but so poor I am do u know why because I was purchased a new home and for it I should reternt to bank all of my laborage may be until 10 years but that is so bad for me and I also can't do any thing beside just stay at home haven't any thing to do. yeah I am not too sad about it I like learn, but reason of this I was get divorce last year ...... that is also not big mater for me I learnt from her waht is the woman want, and I never blive the love is out side of money, and my doughter also with here mum now but I haven't any money for spend for her ......... befor may be I was stuped enugh so I wanna change as soon as but any one can tell me why I am not good mony maker yet? which thing I was wrong ? which point I must to do ? thank u my firends .............................
2006-06-12 03:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Abdumalik A 3 in Social Science ➔ Economics
when u really do ur best... to make money
2006-06-12 03:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by coolgurlz_1610 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see three components here.
The first is your crimped cash flow. This is due to 1) not working. 2) Buying a house. 3) The recent divorce. A house is a heck of an investment, a real pool of wealth, and it doesn't give back immediately other than through the satisfaction that you're not paying rent.
The second is your divorce. Divorces are even more expensive than most medical treatments. You'll feel better about yourself when you come to accept that you'll need a lot of time to recover from this financially, and it also sounds like you need some time to recover emotionally.
The third is the loss of your daughter to her mother. This is heart-rending, truly. The best thing you can do is try to keep a strong relationship with her and keep civil with the mother.
Just take it one day at a time. I moved to my current city with one week's expenditures in my pocket, a few bags of clothes and a bed. I've lived thriftily, worked hard, saved even harder, and played a bit when I could, and so today I'm feeling alright. Not perfect, but the happiness that comes from a simple life.
2006-06-12 05:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Veritatum17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell by your typing that english is not your first language but you have apparently overcome at least one obstacle and thats coming to a new country and learning a new language enough to work. Congratulations. I would suggest you sit down and figure out your strengths and maybe go back to school and study in an area you enjoy and get a better job. If you have your own home you can always access the equity you have in your home and invest it as a wealth building scheme as the interest is tax deductible, but be careful that if you are just making your payments that you dont get in too deep. Good luck.
2006-06-12 05:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by bigjimmyguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not alone in this ,but permit me to advice you to improve a bit in your written English i understand it's not your language it's not mine either, it will really help in understanding your question and of course have better and intelligent answers, don't be offended please.
2006-06-12 03:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋