I said some mean stuff to my boyfriend while in an argument an dhurt him badly. i want to make it better.Guys if u were in this situationa nd then ur g/f shows up at ur door in nothing but heels,lingerie an da trench coat.How would u react.No dirty dumb answers please.Thank You
2006-06-12 03:15:48 · 13 answers · asked by mshollywood20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i tried apologizing but that dosen't seem to work
2006-06-12 03:21:47 · update #1
If I'd be angry at my ex-gf for hurting me, I wouldn't think of having sex with her. That sexy stuff wouldn't work with me.
An honest "Look, I'm sorry, I overreacted, I shouldn't have said that" etc. would work so much better on me.
2006-06-12 03:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lyvy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've apologized and he refuses to accept that, then you have to accept that he's either not interested or not ready to forgive you. Trying to seduce a forgiveness from him only happens in the movies. Depending on what you said, he may never forgive you. You have to face the fact that you may have lost him. Just back off and give him a little time; perhaps things will be more calm in a week, wait a while and try him again.
Good luck.
2006-06-12 10:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear some linginre oil your skin up for him the shinny look is in cook for him its more personal give him a message with oil after the two of u get out the shower give him a hand job get on top of him and work them hips untill he cums and ask him do u forgive he cant says no to that if thats dont work nothing will p.s. cuff him to the bed and **** his brain out if he trys to leave walmart has good cheap stuff go to walgreens for the hands cuffs.
2006-06-12 10:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going for the sexual buy back might work if he's young and immature.
I'd much prefer a sincere apology.
traditionally a peace offering is nice too...
someone told me a potted plant is ideal...
go for the Bonsai...then say you're sorry.
Every one says things they don't necessarily mean...
2006-06-12 10:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you said some thing to hurt him i don't think it would be appropriate to try to get him to just pretend it didn't happen and try to suduce him. this is serious: you need to discuss what happened and EXPLAIN how you temporarily lost your mind. (i'm guilty of losing my mind on occassion and saying things that are very hurtful to my husband). the best way to clear up something you said is to explain it REALIZING that excuses do not make it better... but communication PROBABLY will.
2006-06-12 10:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were that mean, you better follow through with it. Good luck!! Tell hem everyone makes a mistake now and then and everyone says things they don't mean when they are upset and beg for his forgiveness.
2006-06-12 10:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a clean breast of it. Admit that you were wrong. Nothing melts a heart like a guilt stricken sweatheart.
2006-06-12 10:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by george l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd kick you in the face, and introduce you to the girl I was presently screwing.
2006-06-12 10:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it with more maturity. if you are sincere, you can show it in another way besides being sexual. but guys do sometimes get to be immature and would dig that...but what if YOUR boyfriend IS MATURE...you wouldn't want to be left outside his door feeling bad if he didn't buy it...
2006-06-12 10:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by a_yogini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with warrior
2006-06-12 10:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by mc_1_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋