We were supposed to watch the world cup game together.
First, he decides to play basketball in th morning which was fine then he got home and called me and said that he was sick. Then he called back and told me that he was going to call me and let me know were to meet him. He said that he is going to his friends and his excuse that I couldn't go was "there is no need" isn't that real nice of him this was said after I was waiting for him for almost 15 min when he decided to call me and tell me to meet him. What I am trying to say is that am I psycho for gong to the friends house when he told me not to because I got sick of waiting. When I got there I yelled at him because I felt he deserved it.
2006-06-12 03:07:40 · 9 answers · asked by raven25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, i understand you were really really pissed at what he did. And fair enough you had reason to be mad. However you had no right to go to his friends house and b*tch him out, that was just wrong on your behalf.
You should have just let him be and then when he came around you later THEN you should have RIPPED him a new one.
2006-06-12 03:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by "EL SANCHO" 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can't explain how things like this happen to everyone... even if they're in different parts of the world.
you're not psycho! the problem with other people in relationship is there's still this double standards. Let's say you yelled at him because you were disappointed and upset...so? does that mean you couldn't let off steam?
no one yells for no reason at all...no one gets upset for no reason at all...you had a fight because you didn't feel important. and why wouldn't any boyfriend or girlfriend get upset when their partners don't give any importance to them? why then are they together, right?
my piece of advise (i do hope you guys already stopped fighting) but be clear with your partner what you really expect of him. relationships are not a game when parties keep testing each other. if he doesn't meet your needs...and vice versa and your life ends up having grief all the time...as what (Mr Savage always says.. "DTMFA"...dump that m****r f****r already!"
2006-06-12 10:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by a_yogini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, cool down! Boys have their own code to talk like women. He surely wanted to watch the game with his friends but he wasn't mature enough to tell it to you straight! He found all these stupid excuses!
You should not go there and yell at him! YOU SHOULD GO A OUT WITH A FRIEND AND HAVE FUN! That's so simple! If I were you, I would be upset too! Next time do what I told you before! He may thought that his friends mock at him because he can't go anywhere without his girlfriend! That's boys!
Imagine that: you have to go for manicure with your friends and your boyfriend wanted to come with you! Do you understand me now?
2006-06-12 10:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wanted to hang with friends instead but not enough nerve to tell you. Why don't you ask HIM what he was trying to say. Obviously, he's hiding some information from you.
2006-06-12 10:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he didnt invite you and you invaded his privacy so he didnt deserve you bitching at him. you deserved a good bitching out for invading his privacy. he didnt want you there how clearer could he of made it. I hope cause of your stupidty he never speaks to you again . he didnt want you there and you went anyways
2006-06-12 10:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by silvereagle1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i think that you can do whatever you want it's your boyfriend he shhouldnt have kept you waiting
2006-06-12 10:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress it was his fault not yours and he is the one who should be worried about losing someone as good as you you shouldnt be worried about losing him he sounds like a jerk and it sounds like you could do much better
2006-06-12 10:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a real winner.... how long have u n him been together? if he doesnt start paying u any attention dump his @ss!!
2006-06-12 10:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by diamondprincezz456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need a new boyfriend
2006-06-12 10:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋