2006-06-12 02:16:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All you need to do is tell him your true feelings and what you want out of the relationship. Even if he don't answer. He heard you now let him think about it and he will when he is ready sit down with you and talk to you about this matter
2006-06-12 02:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by silvereagle1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: You can't.
Longer answer:
Trying to get your man to do anything just strengthens his concern that committing to you will only lead to you trying to change more things about him. Drop the desperation about being his wife and focus on making yourself a more desirable wife (something you do have control over). You have to realize that he may think you don't have patience with him. If you can't wait for this one thing, how much more will you be impatient about?
Many good relationships have been killed because someone got impatient so yours wouldn't be the first if you decide you can't wait.
2006-06-12 03:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by NYC2RTP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean men don't care? I got a husband fine.
Look honey you gota put it this way, take a breath get a couple friends to kinda make the guy like you. if u too get conected try geting his phone number, Dont EVEn think about sex yet just chat. get in to his life see what kind of fperson he is. then after a while you should be finallybrave enuf to ask him to marry you[ after u guys go out and all of course]
Then on the other hand....he might be your bf and u just don't kno what to say to him. well u cant simple grab a ring for him and say will u marry me. hes sappose to do that. yu should try telling him how much you love him so much. and say that sum day u wana marry him. and one day he'll proboly pull out a ring. for you.
2006-06-12 02:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Yo Good Moma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to marry you, LEAVE HIM NOW. I wasted a good part of my 20's and early 30's with a man who didn't want to marry me (yet) despite the fact that I told him numerous times that I really wanted to be his wife. Guess what? I finally left him found a man who really WANTED to be married (proposed to me all romantically and is very excited to call me his WIFE) and now I'm too old to have children.
2006-06-12 03:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be his wife if he doesn't understand why u want to? He obviously isn't ready to get married so respect that because if u try to change anything about him then he wouldn't be the guy u love. You are going to have to change yourself or move on.
2006-06-12 02:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by cricket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the same my problem. Are you sure do you love him not infatuated (but i'm not sure) How long the relationship if it a long time you can ask him but if it very short (a month) you shouldn't ask it's a little fast
Do everything if it make you happy
2006-06-12 02:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men don't care... they dont Want to marry till later in life... if you cant Wait, move on
2006-06-12 02:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋