she is a my friend. we used to wander together during our summer vacation when we r in college tthese days. we r from differend colege from different place. we r also so good friend and desk mate during our school time. i really love her but i dont know whether she loves me or not.
2006-06-12 02:06:30 · 15 answers · asked by lhaksfiru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, maybe you should tell her how you feel about her! She may only think you want to be friends, so I would tell her soon. Ask her how she may feel about the idea of the two of you dating. She may be happy that you have spoken up! When you start dating a good friend sometimes it changes the friendship. You can only hope that the feelings for one another become more intense and more loving. If you happen to drift apart, then the original friendship may be forever changed. I thought I would toss that in for your to consider. I mean if things do not work out well for you, you can only hope that you can still be friendly, and not resent any new fellows that may come along in her future if the two of you fail at your attempt at a relationship...do you see what I mean?
Good luck, I hope she feels the same for you too, you sound so nice!
2006-06-12 02:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by ruthie_msw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to tell her how you feel. Ask her out on a date and pour out your heart to her. Maybe she also loves you she is just waiting for you to make the 1st move (she is a girl after all). Since she's your friend and hopefully you know her, you will be able to chose the right way to approach her. Good luck.
2006-06-12 10:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by ziphora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times by the acion of a person u can determine whether or nt the person loves u, because love is soething that when u feel it for someone u can't stop but expressing that love, another bold thing that u can do is straightout ask her
2006-06-12 09:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by zkimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to sound like a broken record, but it's one of those things you have to take the plunge and ask. But think very carefully - it will change your relationship when you ask whether she says yes or no.
2006-06-12 09:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by Fed_UP_with_work. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, try hooking up (intensely kissing her) and see what her response is. if that doesn't work or if you are too chicken, then call her and say, "i know this guy who really, really likes you." (implying yourself.) if she responds, "i know this girl who really, really likes you" with a giggle, then she likes you! also, it cant hurt to just ask. say, "do you want to take this farther?" or "do you want to go out?" if she says "yes," she wants to be your girlfriend. if she says "no," she still might like you but not love you, she might just want to stay friends so that love doesn't ruin your relationship. good luck! <3
2006-06-12 09:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to ask her but start by saying dat i no we been friends 4 a long time but i want 2 no if u have ever liked me or wanted 2 be more than wat we r now and u should have ur answer
2006-06-12 09:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her and if she says nothing it mean she doesn't love you mate or maybe she is not ready they say actions speak louder than words.
2006-06-12 09:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a kiss if she kisses u back with passion then u got an answer.or u can just tell her how u feel .
2006-06-12 09:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by Factor X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you like her best friend and see her reaction...if she is jealous, then she loves you..otherwise go and propose her best friend :)
2006-06-12 09:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way that you are going to know is too ask her
2006-06-12 09:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by Coodles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋