she is closed opposed to reconciling. we have a daighter. I miss them both. She has to feel guilty on some level for what she has done. true love is unconditional. I have forgiven her for cheating
2006-06-12 01:58:52 · 19 answers · asked by christsluv4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she has a lot of anger towards me and I was faithful
2006-06-12 02:00:17 · update #1
closed should not be in the first sentence.
2006-06-12 02:01:00 · update #2
she wants you to feel the guilty one even though she is the one who cheated on you. you shouldnt have to crawl back to her even though i know you love her. try to make arrangements to have time with your daughter while you sort this out.
2006-06-12 02:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but I think your wife doesn't love you anymore. Wives who really love their husbands normally are very strong in resisting temptations that come their way. This is so because most of the time, the one who is very determined to keep the family unbroken and strong is the wife. The mere fact that she committed infidelity would show that she did not treasure your relationship for if she did, I'm sure, she would have not done that.
It's good that you've forgiven her despite her sin against your family. I admire you for being that kind of husband who is willing to take back his wife if only to protect his love for his family. It's disappointing that your wife doesn't appreciate you for being that extraordinary man.
If I were you, I would look at the brighter side of life where I would hope for meeting another person who deserves my love. Look around you and believe in your heart, that someone out there would love and be more than willing to be loved by you. Good luck.
2006-06-12 02:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does not reconcile then you need to find counseling and help and not worry about winning her back... Cut your losses and get out and divorce her. You are right true love is unconditional but she does not feel this way about you. You are a gem and it is so sad that she does not see or realize this! I wish you the best!
2006-06-12 04:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hopeless situation, move on. If she cheated, why the hell are you trying to get HER back? Daughter or not, you dont need to be married in order to raise a healthy sound minded child. Theres no hope, she moved on a while ago, i suggest you do the same.
2006-06-12 02:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by clubgurl1822001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...
Cheating is such a complicated thing.
No woman (at least, woman I've ever met)... strays if she's being TAKEN CARE OF. (and I don't mean - in the bedroom)...
If she strayed... *something* was missing... and... guess who... was the one NOT providing it.
LOVE is only part of the equation.
You have forgiven her for cheating, but has she forgiven you for pushing her away?
Something to ponder.
2006-06-12 02:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Stanleys 2001. 100%.
Something or alot of things were missing. She resentful towards you for a reason. Maybe she loved you so much and you let her down.
Take things for granted and then all of a sudden cry when it's all gone.
2006-06-18 06:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by itty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont move on. imagine if Christ had moved on.....? so your idea of love and forgivness is great may Jesus strenghten you and help to get her and your lovely daughter back. just try and talk to her and tell her that you dont need explanation or talking about past and that you just love her very much and want her back in your life .... just go and express yourself and see Jesus will bless you both together again....what God has put together let no man separate.
2006-06-12 02:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 20:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you trust her a very close friend of mine wife cheat on him he took her baby but she always worries if he is going to cheat on her now.
2006-06-12 02:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by young one1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋