its not that i am stupid or something, i just love him despite all his negativities....i know he loves me as well, yet why does he have to lie and decieve me?
2006-06-12 01:57:04 · 8 answers · asked by music 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because you are a devoted and loving wife that is why. You need counseling and help though and so does he. I am glad he loves you but i certainly feel that this marriage needs alot of work and help!
2006-06-12 04:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Willingly submitting to "lies and deception" because you think you love him speaks of deep-seated mental issues within yourself.
I smell co-dependency. Was your father a scoundrel?
Unless you're motivated to get help to break out of your symbiotic self-destruction, then you get what you deserve.
2006-06-12 09:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by William 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women do stupid things in spite of love... you know the saying, love is blind. I can't tell you to leave him I know how hard that can be but stand your ground, he will eventually give in unless somewhere in between you fall out of love.
2006-06-12 09:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not saying you dont love him but if you really feel that he loves you too then he wouldnt be doing what he is doing to you. i would suggest counselling for both of you to try to work out these issues. if he wont go then i wouldnt stay with him as things wont improve.
2006-06-12 09:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love him because hes sexy and good in bed (i assume) he lies to u becasue he knows u wont get mad and that he likes to tease you and have his own secret life
2006-06-12 08:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
errrrr, sorry to burst your bubble - but when someone's in love with you, they simply DONT lie to you. it's sweet that just coz you love him with all his negatives, and he says he loves you, you're so gullible. but please..... have a serious think about it.... does he? i think he just likes the security you provide him with
2006-06-12 09:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no accounting for taste
2006-06-12 09:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by obeirn1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz u r a loser
2006-06-12 08:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋