ive been trying to change me and t you know its pretty touch mostly when i am sitting on the side lines. i dont care to deceive and lie .if i am being my self i lose the relationship. please tel me what your experience is ?will you respond?
God bless you
2006-06-12 01:37:42 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Dining Out ➔ United States ➔ Dallas
Being your self does not mean its OK to be abusive. Its important to be your self but not with issues that are abusive and destructive to others.
No woman wants to be abused!!!! I mean really do you want to be abused?? MENTALLY PHYSICALLY EMOTIONALLY THEY WILL ALL DESTROY YOUR Relationships.
You need to find out why you are so angry that you feel the need to lash out at another human being?
Change is hard, but you need to examine you and why you are they way you are,,,parents? childhood? whatever...I would stay away from a relationship until I was able to feel secure enough in myself not to degrade or abuse someone else
I just read your profile and you have asked this question alot, are you trying to justify your actions? get someone to agree with you?? You end every thing with God bless so you obviously believe in God then think about do unto other as you would have them do unto you. Don't look for someone to abuse try to work on you.
2006-06-13 08:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by seniorcaredallas@yahoo.com 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told yes!
I went to school with a girl who said she needed a man that would play daddy to her. When she was bad or wrong she needed to be punished. Her boyfriend would beat her pretty badly and she didn't know how to let go. She would be black and blue from the abuse. Promise she would leave and then a day later they would be back together. Some people dont know how to cope with out the abuse. But there should be no one hitting or hurting each other. You should leave if you can't keep your hands to yourself.
2006-06-12 08:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you trying to find a woman who likes it so that you can beat up on someone? I mean, you asked this question a whole bunch of times!! What's up with that?
Also, do you really think it's smart to give your address and phone number on your 360 page??
Well, whatever your reasons, I hope you figure things out.
As for me....if a man hits me once, I'm OUT!! And I call the police, no woman (or man for that matter)deserves to be hit.
2006-06-12 08:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't like abusive men. They show no respect whilst they are abusive, mostly due to poor communication skills. I think they should have some sort of couselling to improve their behaviour towards others at crucial moments. At least you are addressing your problem, that's gotta be a big step for you. Good luck.
2006-06-12 08:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't but I know plenty with a low self esteem that do.
2006-06-12 15:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either seek psychiatric help or anger management assistance or there are submissives out there that like that stuff
2006-06-12 08:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by thisisraya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no woman wants an abusive man...
2006-06-12 11:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by tereval198912 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is you deserve them
2006-06-12 11:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Chris Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of sick B**stard are you?
2006-06-12 11:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋