women. women sending SMSs on her phone to tell her nasty things that her husband tells them about her. Last week he was caught by the husband of his girlfriend in a hotel room and they had a big fight and he accused my sister of informing the husband to her rival about the relationship with her husband and was furious with her. Now she has asked for my opinion on what step she should take, what should I advise her please.
2006-06-12 00:50:22 · 26 answers · asked by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DIVORCE
2006-06-12 00:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, apparently your sister has known about this for some time, and has accepted it so far...
If it wasnt being "thrown in her face", then she would calmly deny it still, but, its to the point that she is wanting your support to help her take action, because YOU are going to be her "support group"... her circle that she can draw around her for suppport.
If your willing to be there for her, then tell her to divorce him as he is steady in his pattern of "flings". (I never understand some people).
But also, remember this, that he must not be getting it at home, to go elsewhere... So, your sister is part of the problem!
I would also, get her checked and see if she has picked up any type of sexually transmitted diseases, since she has a far roaming spouse!
Its up to you Sis... Can you take her on and help her, or do you dump her and leave her to her misieries? Its a tough decision that only you can make, but, once its made, then your going to be on it 24/7 from then on...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-12 08:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How completely awful for your sister! How dare her husband be angry with her. That's completely ridiculous. It sounds like this marriage is beyond repair. Tell your sister to talk to the citizens advice bureau concerning steps for divorce. She shouldn't have a problem, adultery breaks the marriage vows. Your sister could be seriously harmed if she continues to live with this abusive man. Take her in yourself or make her ask your parents to take her in.
2006-06-12 08:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to leave him. He has a lot of nerve to get mad at her for being caught when she didn't do anything wrong. She first needs to move out, get a good divorce lawyer, and don't look back. Who needs a husband that constantly cheats. Besides who knows what kind of diseases he's picking up.
2006-06-12 08:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get involved. I know your sister wants your advice but the only thing you can really do is tell her you cannot help her. This is her mess and she needs to deal with it on her own. Had she been a strong woman in the first place she may not have these problems.
If you get into her business she may turn on you later.
Good luck!
G.G.
2006-06-12 08:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut his dick off
all done
get him really really drunk
put the knife in his own hands, then cut it off
put the put the dick in his other hand
wait a couple of minutes call the police yelling the whole time..no don't do
don't do it...then yell he has a knife and he is trying to cut me..make the phone fall on the floor and mess up the house then scream real real loud help ..then drop the phone and run and hide
tell the cops the both of you were drinking and he went nuts
for his nuts
2006-06-12 07:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer
2006-06-12 10:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by roster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to ask??? If she was sleeping around with other men would he be happy about it??? Like the other person said Divorce. Check the phone book!!!
2006-06-12 08:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you said to that girl looking for another girl was very rude
god did indeed create man and woman
god also created each and everyone of us
the only difference between a gay and a straight is what they get upto in the bedroom
it is not your job to cast the first stone
2006-06-12 09:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by everybody loves chris! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister should get together with the husband of the girl he was cheating with and feel better!
2006-06-12 08:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think her husband is not loyal to his wife (your sister). Now it depends on your sister and her position in her life, whether or not
they have children? is your sister employed? can she support herself? has she found any other man to marry to? etc. Then she may decide if she would like to get divorced.? I Think you should not involve yourself in your sister's life and decisions.
Good Luck.
2006-06-12 08:05:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋