so that when u do it with ur wife ur experienced
2006-06-12 00:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by vvvvvv r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no not at all it is not permissible to have adultery before marriage
2006-06-12 00:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well usually in an arranged marriage the two people are from cultures that do not beleive in sex before marriage, if she is also inexperienced then she won't know the difference. And it would take more than one time for you to develop the experience your talking about.
Best to learn together with your new wife, it can be something that you can both share and bring you closer to each other.
2006-06-12 07:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't because chances are you might love your pre-arranged husband and having sex with someone before you married him would make you feel guilty afterwards.
You have the right not to obey whoever asked you to have that arranged marriage. If you do get married with that pre-arranged husband, it's better that you're still a virgin when you married him. At least, his respect for you will be spotless. If you don't love him at all, try to learn to love him by looking at his good qualities and be a good wife. For all you kinow, you might be into a blissful marriage with that man without staining your virginity prior to your marriage.
2006-06-12 07:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think NOT -- but what is the custom in your culture. What is the teaching of your religious heritage.
You wouldn't really be experienced - even if that was a good thing - you would however, possibly feel regret at doing this thing.
Wouldn't it be a grand thing for you and your wife to gain experience - together - then you will be experienced without regrets.
2006-06-12 07:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes and so should he/she. Odds are, one of you are dog as* ugly and should get some good stuff while you can. DO IT. Screw that virgin crap, you're already bought. I can't believe such an archaic thing as "Arranged marriages" are still practiced in 2006. Some traditions die off for a reason(s). You can't purchase love. You may be able to rent it for several weeks.
2006-06-12 07:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by diceman74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up to you. Why hesitate if your heart wants to have intercourse? Even on the wedding night itself, would you really can enjoy the sexuality with your partner whom has no experience at all?
Sex nowadays is too common before marital.
2006-06-12 07:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way make your wedding night special by saving yourself for her cause she probably is doing the same thing. Dont make stupid decisions that could make you have to hit your head later.
2006-06-12 08:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by mrs ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont agree with arranged marriages, cant help you there.
2006-06-12 07:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have an arraigned marriage but if i did I'd get all the strange i could first....
2006-06-12 07:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you want her too to be similarly experienced?
2006-06-12 07:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by Neeraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋