its only been 6mths and i feel i want to marrry him is it 2 early to think of married...
2006-06-12 00:30:36 · 24 answers · asked by sweetlinda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is way too early to even think about marriage. You need to wait at least another year. If everything is as it should be, then marry him, if he asks you that is. Good Luck........don't rush it!
2006-06-12 00:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer. But keep in mind that getting married, should be looked at as a life time deal. To me 6months is not long enough to know someone well enough. ask questions learn about each other. do you want kids - does he. is he in a dead-end job where does the future seem to be going.
One thing in life that should not be rushed into is marriage. You can love with all your heart so why rush the I do's. Do you know him so well. does he know you. have you met his family.
close your eyes and see how you see the future and if you honestly see yourself growing old with this person then yes marriage can be wonderful but if you can not picture this then you need more time to really get to know who you should marry.
2006-06-12 00:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh! Your madly in love. I can feel my heart beat rapidly at just the thought of whats goin on inside of you right now. Be careful tho 6 months is not that long.
Won't it be the same married or not so why not wait a while and see if any little nasty habits pop up before you take the plunge.
2006-06-12 00:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by jewel_o_th_night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he feel like hw wants to marry you the way you want to marry him? Are you both ready for a lifetime commitment of loving, caring and looking out for eachother? Do the two of you talk about any and everything? Do you both have a generally positive outlook on things?
If you answered yes to these questions, then you are more than ready! I wish you luck and a lifetime of happiness!
2006-06-12 04:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking way too ahead. Let the pages of love turn at a slower pace, so you can enjoy each chapter. There is no need to jump to the ending so soon.
Your feelings indicate that you are really in love. Don't rush love for it never does well under pressure. Let it move at it's own pace and enjoy the 'here and now' instead of focusing into the horizon.
2006-06-12 00:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes jaan marriage is not temporary relation with each other. U think so much before u marry about his family, his nature, his carrier and all that we girl are only think his emotions. our love but life is not stop those thinking u think about ur bright future. Then u think u marry with him or not. If u luv him then no doubt he is good boy but still his nature permanent after ur marriage think about that. Take care. Bye. Best of Luck. Have a nice day
2006-06-12 00:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by ssaigal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. Well, my parents got married exactly 6 months and 2 days after meeting each other the first time, and thanks to God, they will be 30 years of marriage on next October.
How did it worked? THEY MET JESUS CHRIST! They gave their life to Him and they based their marriage in Him.
If you don't know Jesus Christ, I recommend you to do so, and your boyfriend also. If you don't have Him in your relationship, it hardly will work with such a short amount of time knowing each other...
BEST WISHES! :)
2006-06-12 00:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by dioshy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally up to you and how does he feel about this. How well do you know him? Are you ready to commit and love to him till death do you part through sickness and in health and does he feel the same way? I do recommend pre marriage counseling to the both of you and go from there. Take your time though and dont rush or hurry things. If it is meant to be it will work out perfectly!
2006-06-12 04:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my wife one month before i left for boot camp. made up our minds to get married. six months later, she flew to virginia, we got married. 12 years later, we are still together, got two kids. it hasn't been an easy ride. lots and lots of trials and troubles, but we are very in love, and doing fine. life is a roller coaster. no matter who you marry, you're going to have ups and downs, and the key is to stay together and stay strong during the downs, and when you say forever, you gotta mean it.
2006-06-12 00:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how much you really know him. We tend to learn people over the years. Like you know your parents or brethren all your life and know what to expect of them. The question is not whether you know but if you can adjust with him. Physical things are side matters in long term relationships. You know his strengths, that's why you admire him to the extent of marying him but if you think you can adjust with all his weaknesses, go ahead.
2006-06-12 00:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by samson l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋