I know a girl and have a relation for a few months. We don't see each other very often since she is leaving far away from me. I think i like her a lot and for me she is the perfect woman . Should i ask her to marry me or not? Is it too soon for that. Should i know her better?
2006-06-11 23:30:56 · 23 answers · asked by Giannis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's wonderful that you have met someone that you like! I do believe in really getting to know a person before you commit to something that is supposed to last for a life time! If you have the opportunity, find a job and a place to stay nearer to your friend. Give the relationship some time to grow, right now you seem to be in love with being in love! I feel it's important to love the person you are going to marry, and give your heart and time and life over to. I say get to know her better, first.
If you are young and healthy, nothing will be lost by taking the time to be sure that she is that special lady for you! Sometimes absence (being apart) makes our hearts grow fonder, meaning at a distance your true love may seem more wonderful because she is not close enough for you to really KNOW her.
Be careful of your heart, and be sure before you make a big decision like marriage! I think you will be happy that you took the time to get to know her.
Good luck, and congratulations!
2006-06-11 23:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by ruthie_msw 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
How far away does is she you don't even know what happen on the other side so lets be safe a do it later ask her to move in with you so you get to know her better.
2006-06-11 23:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way too soon...
You increase your odds of a marriage surviving (assuming that's important to you) by waiting at a minimum 6 months... (and dating a LOT during that time)... Best results however favor longer than that... 18 months is recommended.
2006-06-11 23:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think getting to know someone is important.see what happens a couple months down the road. If she loves you shes always going to be there, no need to rush things.You can always have a long engagement.
2006-06-12 00:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard someone say," my spouse just wasn't like that before we got married"? Well, they were that way before its just not enough time was spent getting to know the other person. trust me marrying now would be a huge mistake! Get to know someone before settling down with them.
2006-06-11 23:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...be patient and get to know this woman. A good marriage (so I've been told) is a wonderful thing. A bad marriage (as I've experienced) is a living hell.
Good luck.
2006-06-11 23:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Grace777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... how do you really feel? i mean like you said she is leaving.. try a long engagement "if you REALLY think she is the one" If you think you need to know her better then asking her to marry you will be a bad move. Give it time and space. a relationship doesn't grow over night it takes time and understanding.... like.... a plant. a plant doesnt grow over night...
2006-06-11 23:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you have known this girl only for a few months popping the question right now may not be the right option.if you still think she is the perfect girl for you then let her know about your feelings.All the best.
2006-06-11 23:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by sharu_252 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too soon...wait about 5 years. Divorce is Expensive...
2006-06-11 23:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too soon. Everyone looks good from a distance.
2006-06-11 23:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by skigod377 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋