i have lost all my self confidence help!!!!?

Question

i put my self in stupid stituations always!
all the stupid things i did in the past keep on following me!!

Answer 1

TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.

Try to be yourself in front of OTHERS and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself surrounded with good friends.

Try this as well:

1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)
2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it.
3. A well behaved woman sometimes attracts men (i think).
4. Attend parties for singles.
5. Ask for referrals.
6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).
7. If you are good to one man, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more good men and good girl friends as well

ALL THE BEST.

Answer 2

Thank God for your mistakes they are the tools that teach us what does not work for us. Most people don't learn from watching others mistakes so many of us have done the same things that you have, we eat too much or too little, love or don't love the right or wrong person, wear the right clothes or we don't you get my point. A process it is all a process you would not let anyone make a harsh judgment of a friend of yours that was growing in this manner. Why then judge yourself in that way? Suggest you make a list of your mistakes the big bad ones. Then one by one write down the things that you learned from that mistake. If you did not learn at least two things from the mistake be very very careful you may make another just like it..

Answer 3

Think of the past situations when you felt happy doing something -achieving something.Think of all those people who loved you -your parents ,siblings ,friends and the good things in their company .Every one of us is here in this world with a purpose,do a good thing -help some body -say nice things -even their smile is enough to make you feel good and light up your self confidence .I know a girl-barely 13 years old -lost her leg due to cancer -10 days after surgery she was looking around for an artificial leg to dance in her school function -count your blessings -and become confident

Answer 4

It is called self confidence because it should come from within, from you. Nobody could help you except by letting you know that you are special, created by God in His own image. Let go, look forward and have faith in yourself and you will just wake up one day you are more confident than the day before.

Answer 5

We have all been their and done that. You need to realize that what ever you did in the past you can't change. So except it and get on with your life. Don't allow past mistakes to control your future. Believe me we all have ghost in our closets that we are not happy or proud of.You just need to put the past in the past and not entertain the thoughts. Just chalk it up to experience and learn from them.

Answer 6

Everyone makes mistakes and you have to stop cutting yourself up about them. Learn from them but don't dwell as that will only drive you crazy. Life is a learning process and we learn by our experiences. Don't let past events steer your life.

Answer 7

"Following" you, huh? Seems like you're not learning from your mistakes. Think before you speak and act.

Answer 8

FAILURES ARE THE STEPPING STONE TO SUCCESS. BE BOLD AND FACE IT. A BRAVE MAN DIE ONLY ONCE WHERE AS COWARD DIES EVERY MOMENT.

Answer 9

hiclaude I think you may be on to something here.

Answer 10

please seek professional help. i am in the same situation right now